Something is unusual, you seem to have a tendency to easily catch gonorrhea. Have you thought about taking 200 mg of Doxycycline the next day after a sexual encounter?
Every time we cross the street or walk out of our home we take risks, is up to us to think it's its worth it or not... considering your circumstances and the fact that you have a partner maybe it's not good for you and you might consider sticking to having oral sex with your partner.