marylander1940

You did something amazing; I'll keep that in mind, and I would recommend anyone in a similar situation to do exactly that.... but considering @Gar1eth circumstances I doubt he has the time and ability to do anything like this.

You were a regular and reliable fuck buddy, he reached out to you because you were in his contacts. Maybe he was trying to say goodbye, I'm sure he also reached out too many others.. Please move on! No need for coulda woulda shoulda

Picture courtesy of @Emir

My red flag: PNP.... huge turn off.

I think it's because they've been told stories (real or imagined)) about guys who have cash slaves, etc. They're just giving it a shot.

I'm sure your parents and grandparents also were surprised about your musical taste and other choices you've made in your life.

I'm aware of that! You are certainly lucky! No need for details... dungeon? 😂

is this for real? physical punishment?

MAKE IT UP.... The comment made you feel sad? Why? It was my choice. If a member of a family is wealthy he should help others, at least that's how I see it and how I behave. Do I have to explain to you how lucky you're to live in a world where your private behavior is acceptable and not illegal? Did you ever talk with your parents about your real lifestyle of an open marriage or just put up a facade to get by? Just curious because some folks want to have the cake and eat it too while being a bit self righteous about others.

Unfortunately, his behavior is not unusual among twinks, I guess he was multitasking, etc. This ME, ME, ME mentality with a goldfish attention spam is creating folks who can't put themselves in someone else's place, I'm sure he felt no empathy after cancelling a few minutes before the appointment because the world revolved around him anyway. Hopefully he'll mature but it might take a while....

I grew in loving family, my dad smoke and drank beer daily as expected back then and I guess till this century. Both my parents were caring and loving but I certainly loved my mother most than my dad, even though I would always ask him for money because he was more likely to give it to me. I miss them both, they knew I was gay but I made it up to them and my other siblings with gifts, trips, money, etc. I was the only gay, but I was certainly the wealthiest.

That's not a negative statement at all... unless you want to see it as negative. Just one comment out of place about "macho" countries reminding him he was born in a wealthy country, etc. as if we Americans needed to badmouth other countries to appreciate all the opportunities ours has.... and my reply. We know he wants advice, your suggestion about staying away from "the gays" and getting real bisexual friends was pretty negative.

Nobody picks up any remorse in his story! He's looking for friends, we all know that!

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This is what I call a gay friendly realtor! Picture courtesy of @Whitman

If by Macho country you mean a country south of the border... at least sodomy was never illegal down there, cops didn't constantly raid gay bars, prostitution was always accepted as a necessary thing, and stronger family values made it possible for people to live their lives without being too obvious... As an Irish Catholic that's what I experienced here, my family wouldn't ask certain questions not to know the answers. Unfortunately that wasn't what others my generation felt with the pressure to get married and have children, etc. plus the risk of getting caught in a raid, an undercover cop online, etc. I agree with you that nothing beats the opportunities of being born in this country, unfortunately so many folks in the poorest states can't see that. One more thing, plenty of frat boys, blue collar guys and rednecks are homophobic even nowadays in the USA.

If I had posted it I would be in the penalty box!