marylander1940

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He's also native American....

No doubt! Charlotte is extremely flaky, maybe we should name it the "Charlotte mafia". I searched and unfortunately the original "Dallas escort mafia" was removed and 2 other threads are expired and I would rather not resuscitating them quoting them on here. If 4 guys make plans in Charlotte, half of them will cancel or not show up, several escorts told me that! They even had cancellations from guys who send a "booking fee" in advance at no request of the escort... 🤷‍♀️! Medium size markets like Charlotte and Raleigh are a hit or miss... they have few providers and many closeted men but some trips might be good while others a failure.

Exactly, most escorts wouldn't put their name out there to get a 3rd unless they trust the client and they have met him a few times.

Meet them separately, make plans, tell them what you have in mind and have fun! Some escorts might even recommend you a friend they trust and with whom they have worked before.

Not everyone can be a doctor, join the military, etc. What's your point? Why the constant fat shaming? Brush up... that's how a gentleman talks! 😉

In their case I think is multitasking, or the me me me culture... they're the center of the world and YOU must adapt to them. PNP also has something to do with escorts not showing up.

Agreed! DoxyPep is good for clients but not so much for escorts who are BB pretty much every day, even if they have day of the week without clients is not a good idea for them to take antibiotics on a daily basis Please remember to have yogurt with probiotics and avoid alcohol the day you take 200mg of doxycycline or whatever pill he prescribed you 😉!

An overwhelming percentage of them do and they want to get off with something cheaper than hiring an escort. We even have frequent poster who bragged about not telling masseurs he was about to cum but if he tells them only 5% of them would swallow.... his post got plenty of 👍 on here! @socurious DON'T do massages is a waste of time, is exhausting and you'll get paid less for the same amount of time and 4 times the effort! You can be thinking what's for dinner while getting/giving a blow job but if you're massaging you have to be focus, it's just not worth it.

Are you multitasking?

They happen in all human activities commercial, personal, etc. but they're highly annoying when they happen to providers because they are the product. Regret Cold feet. Got someone closer, better, cheaper? Prank The guy is a loser and can't afford hiring...

You Sir are a gentleman! You'd be amazed about how many tops disregard that basic common sense I remember Steven Draker saying there was only one rule in New York now now now now. And based on your pictures you also work out at the gym and follow us strict diet!

I guess you have a versatile approach to contact them! Instant message first and later texting

You may regret your decision years later but this was YOUR DECISION. What makes you think that was precisely the case? b Judging before we know all the facts? The "me too" movement has exposed that we have a culture of rape in our country especially in colleges, sports and the military.

that phrase has been said multiple times in this forum about rape survivors, especially in the Playboy Mansion thread...

I understand your point but believe me some gay men in their 50s and 60s text like teenagers and love it.

Because it's a pain in the ass and not in a good way. Most messages are hi?, what's up?, how are you?, rate?, etc. Before potential clients were able to send an email with sentences, now every time they click enter it goes as one message. Most folks tell me that it's nothing but a way to waste time. If someone is interested he'll make the effort to communicate by text and getting to the point.

Am I alone thinking that that's a stupid question? If I provider is home and showered he can see a client in 1 minute. If he is half an hour away from home and needs a shower maybe he needs more time. Escorts also go to the supermarket, gym, swatch TV at home, see other clients, etc it's hard to tell exactly how much time notice do they need at all times.

What about just asking him: "can I see you again? When are you coming back to town?" I think you're overthinking this too much.