marylander1940

You did something amazing; I'll keep that in mind, and I would recommend anyone in a similar situation to do exactly that.... but considering @Gar1eth circumstances I doubt he has the time and ability to do anything like this.

You were a regular and reliable fuck buddy, he reached out to you because you were in his contacts. Maybe he was trying to say goodbye, I'm sure he also reached out too many others.. Please move on! No need for coulda woulda shoulda

Picture courtesy of @Emir

My red flag: PNP.... huge turn off.

I think it's because they've been told stories (real or imagined)) about guys who have cash slaves, etc. They're just giving it a shot.

I'm sure your parents and grandparents also were surprised about your musical taste and other choices you've made in your life.

I'm aware of that! You are certainly lucky! No need for details... dungeon? 😂

is this for real? physical punishment?

MAKE IT UP.... The comment made you feel sad? Why? It was my choice. If a member of a family is wealthy he should help others, at least that's how I see it and how I behave. Do I have to explain to you how lucky you're to live in a world where your private behavior is acceptable and not illegal? Did you ever talk with your parents about your real lifestyle of an open marriage or just put up a facade to get by? Just curious because some folks want to have the cake and eat it too while being a bit self righteous about others.

Unfortunately, his behavior is not unusual among twinks, I guess he was multitasking, etc. This ME, ME, ME mentality with a goldfish attention spam is creating folks who can't put themselves in someone else's place, I'm sure he felt no empathy after cancelling a few minutes before the appointment because the world revolved around him anyway. Hopefully he'll mature but it might take a while....