Maybe they're in love with those "old ladies".... I don't feel sorry for other folks' choices if that's actually their choice. I don't share this hobby with most of my friends because they might express disapproval and even feel sorry about me paying for sex while they don't.
Have you ever had sex while in love?
Not taking this out of subject but... what's "exactly" your type?
Months of trying to align schedules?
If there's a will there's a way.
@KensingtonHomo I also feel empathy for women in that kind of situation! Fortunately, now that being gay isn't illegal, and is even socially accepted, the number of gay men seeking marriage to a woman and hide their true identity to get social acceptance is not as high as before.
Many of my friends in the 60's lured women into marriages, got them pregnant and later on divorced them to "go back" to being gay.