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What @JBrian72 describes is not that unusual since it is simply over-anticipating an event followed by disappointment in the actual event! Certainly, this often happens if someone anticipates something so much that they build up their expectations to such a degree that no matter how excellent the event in question is, it does not measure up to the impossible standard set by their imagination. ************* As for a certain poster's intense dislike (hatred?) for Armie Hammer, his life, his straight, handsome, leading-man looks, (apparently including the fact that he was born wealthy/privileged, male and Caucasian!) and his up and down career trajectory, I must conclude that though the poster is adamant in his negativity, he is entitled to his opinion. It does appear to be a relatively minority opinion, especially among those of us, who having followed that roller-coaster career, wish Mr. Hammer only success, followed by more intriguing acting roles for him in the future. Yes, and that's JMHO, too. TruHart1

I guess this may be like so many other things. Some clients are put off by tattoos, which are usually quite visible. Some clients wouldn't think of hiring a smoker, which in most instances is easily detectable by deep kissing, particularly for those who are especially sensitive to this, and some would not even contemplate hiring an escort with an undersized endowment. In your case, @Michael Paul, there may be clients who will pass on hiring you, especially if you are honest and upfront about having your implant. Looking at your flaccid pic up-thread, everything appears normal, unless the angle in the pic is somehow deceiving, but from your statements here, the only way someone might detect your pump after you're fully hard would be by noticing a difference in the texture of your shaft if they were touching and/or manipulating (sucking or jacking) you. It really does come down to this in your case: if you are completely comfortable and secure in the fact that your penile pump is undetectable to the men who hire you, and I would guess that you've felt your fully engorged organ many times since the procedure, so you know if there is any obvious difference between your pre-pump and post-pump hard-on, you know within yourself whether it would be better to explain anything at all about your pump to any possible client or not. Of course, as pointed out by others, advertising that you are hard "100% all the time, as long as you like" in your ad copy might make you so proud of having the ability to do this, that you feel compelled to talk about having the implant. In the end, though, only you may decide if you need, or indeed, want to tell any or all prospective clients about your pump. Certainly, no one who has contributed to this thread so far has any actual experience with a penile implant except you. TruHart1

The doctor says, "Just spread wide and relax...you won't feel a thing!" TruHart1

It may be unusual in the case of escorts, who sometimes begin the whole escorting business because they are blest with large endowments, but one of my very favorite ongoing escort relationships is with a guy who could only be described as smaller than average. Maybe I was a bit surprised in our first appointment, especially since he had numerous glowing and excellent reviews on Daddy's. Once the lovemaking began, though, he left no doubt in my mind that I had hired one of the hottest, most talented men in the business. Everything about our times with each other is just drenched in intense sensuous sexual energy. Once I spent my first three hours with him, (extended from my originally planned period of two hours because we were both just so into it!) I knew I'd found a truly special man who knew exactly how to make me enjoy our time together to the very last drop (and even after!!!) Not only that but I knew I would be seeing this man again and again, whenever I was in his area. In his case, size is totally and completely irrelevant! I LOVE this hobby! TruHart1

Yet, again there may be a case made for the fact that you might be super-exciting to the client if you pre-pump and greet him at your door with a raging hard-on! I know I would not be thinking of the mechanics involved were I greeted by an escort in his full glory!!! It would, in fact, be pretty HOT for me! TruHart1

I wouldn't be too surprised if you do, Marylander! TruHart1

Some of my regular guys answer their door dressed in jeans and a tee shirt, showing how fine their chest development is! I have one regular escort who always answers his hotel door in only a towel, which falls off almost immediately upon getting the door closed after I get inside. He does sometimes have a jock strap under the towel for variation - easy access for a guy like me who enjoys rimming this particular escort's amazing ass! My very first appointment with the wonderful Apollo Phoenix, I was staying in a boutique NYC hotel, where they required a guest key card to access the elevator. It was late May and quite warm outside. I was waiting patiently for Apollo to call me on my phone so I could go down and bring him up to my room. Though I had told him my room number, I was not expecting it, so I was quite surprised when I heard a knock at my hotel room door. My first sight of Apollo was as absolutely a creature of my hottest wet dreams, wearing short-short (tight!) red shorts (with his impressive bulge highlighted!) and a very brief, tight, tight. super-abbreviated cut off white tee-shirt, emphasizing his phenomenal arms and chest! With that outfit, literally nothing was left to the imagination, even though the best was yet to cum, and cum again!!!:D:D When I asked how he made it up to my room without a key card, he said a number of young women riding the elevator up, were very happy to let him ride along with them to my floor!!! If I'd seen Apollo on the street dressed like he was, I would have been staring at him both coming and going! Yet another of my favorite regulars who visits my area a couple of times a year, always greets me at his hotel room door wearing only short stretch briefs. After we hug in greeting, we always catch up and share what's happened in each other's lives since the last time we got together. During this conversation, which ALWAYs lasts about 40 minutes of our 2-hour session, he drapes himself comfortably over a chair, widely man-spreading during our entire conversation, which always gets me all hot and bothered since his thick, uncut endowment is completely obvious in his stretch briefs, and practically in my face! By the time we get to playtime, I am ready, able and chomping at the bit to get my hands and mouth on him!!! I really love this hobby! TruHart1

Well, now that you mention it, yes, but I must admit, when looking at those two pictures in particular, my eyes were focused lower and much more on his chest, arms and crotch after appreciating his smile! ;) TruHart1

Thank you...he has such a sweet smile, in addition to his other quite impressive physical attributes!!! TruHart1

@samhexum, neither of the links you posted above works for me. :( TruHart1

+1 I completely agree with Mr. Navarro here! I am careful, yes, but I find this hobby amazing in so many ways! There's not an existing set of circumstances in my life that would or could stop me from enjoying myself with the excellent gentlemen I have met and have yet to meet! TruHart1

Let's all admit it. If we participate in an illegal activity (hiring escorts) there is always the (very small) chance we may run into a sting of some sort or another. The solution is to carefully and fully vet each new escort you hire. If you can find absolutely no reviews online and no information by asking about the man you are interested in on the forum, then you should realize you may be taking a chance and though I believe it is rarely the case, a sting is possible but not statistically probable, especially when seeking male companionship. If your intuition tells you something is off, never pay up front and NEVER discuss money for anything sexual! All these techniques, such as going through the door and kissing the guy deeply, or requesting he get naked right away, may or may not safeguard you. In Lance's original post, Adam admits that the undercover officer asked him about specific sexual acts before removal of any clothing and without any physical interaction having yet occurred. Red flags all over in that case! Best and safest: hire escorts who are recommended by people on the forum or IRL you know you can trust. Once you enjoy an excellent escort with whom you feel chemistry, hire them again and again. I know there are clients who are not "repeaters" and are always out to meat new men, but that is not the best way to avoid any possible legal entrapment. Still... I have always been very careful in vetting new guys in depth. Last year, there was an escort on Rentmen in my area, with absolutely NO reviews, I posted a 411 on here about him and got zero feedback, so I decided to pass him by. Fast forward to about 8 months later, and a couple of members posted some very positive statements about this particular escort. Now, he is on my to hire list for 2018! So: vet, Vet, VET if you want to avoid any problems in hiring somebody new! JMHO TruHart1

_________Party like it's 2018!!! TruHart1

...and I remember the old sitcom "Pete and Gladys," in which Mr. Morgan played Pete, which I recall enjoying as a pre-teen, though imdb shows that it was only on two years, from 1960 to 1962! TruHart1

I realize it's all about the tiny apartment, but what I kept thinking was how cute the Youtuber/host in this video is to me! I know...I'm irredeemable!!! TruHart1

From one festival round table or another I saw online, the director, Luca Guadagnino, stated that the original James Ivory screenplay had love scenes between Elio and Oliver that were much more graphic than those Luca chose to depict on screen. As I understand it, though Luca himself is a gay man, he felt that for this particular piece, he wanted a more romantic depiction of the short-lived ultimate fulfillment of Elio's and Oliver's passion/love. The entire film leads (some might even complain quite slowly, just as the book) to that first night they spend together, followed by the anticipation of Oliver's departure and Elio's loss, to the inevitable end of the affair as their short final trip together ends. It appears to me that the director was not worried about censors at all, but had a vision of the finished film he wanted from the beginning of production. As with the choice of music, the choices in cinematography and the underlying through-feel of the film, the director chose to make the love scenes lyrical, rather than graphic. Yes, a disappointment for many but I don't believe (JMHO) anyone thinks the film is not a complete and beautiful piece of work. TruHart1

Russell writes: "My #Quantico costar visiting for #NYE" _________Happy 2018 to Russell, Steve and Priyanka!!! TruHart1

Just to add... the day I signed onto the forum for the very first time, I got a wonderful PM from @tyro warmly welcoming me here! Later, upon actually meeting that beautiful, classy lady while I was visiting Chicago to see the fantastic RGM, we became friends forever!!! TruHart1

Back then, Eric Ryan and Lee Ryder, hell... ANYBODY and Lee Ryder were hot as F**K together!!! And Jon King, what a sexy face, with a beautiful and talented mouth! Absolutely great porn nostalgia. Thanks @marylander1940! TruHart1

I have only had positive experiences with forum members in PMs here except in one instance when I chose to remain faithful to one of my favorite guys (I still hire him!) when he was ganged up on in the forum and I defended him publicly. After that happened, I did receive some pretty derogatory and hateful PMs for a while, which I decided were pointless to acknowledge, so I ignored them completely. I have met two very special men through PMs, though. One who shares my taste in both men and opera, and one who contacted me last year asking about one of my favorite escorts and, in fact, hired him on my recommendation. This member has turned out to be a lasting friend and a real CUTIE! In addition, there are a number of guys (and gals) here who enjoy discussing favorite actors and/or escorts among other topics privately. Almost all of my experiences in forum PMs are very positive and mutually informative. TruHart1

A few of my regular favorite escorts have become friends on Facebook. In fact, I originally set up both a twitter account and a Facebook page specifically to follow one very popular and excellent escort. Not to stalk in any way, mind you, (he knows I follow him and he's fine with it!) but to keep up with their life between the times I have the privilege of hiring them and hanging with them. There are a few escorts on Facebook whose (real) name pops up in "people you may know" now and then and I recognize their face but with them, since I am discreet and their private life is not my business, I don't pursue it or submit a friend request. Still, a couple of my retired favorite guys' personal information has given me the means to see what they are up to now and how their lives are going. Another of my favorite escorts, who has become a very good friend over the years, sent me a text with his Facebook URL and asked me to send him a friend request. Many times it's easier to use Facebook Messenger with him and others, especially if I have more to say than is comfortable when texting by phone! I am not a great presence on social media. I hardly ever tweet, though I do enjoy sharing good humor and interesting music on my Facebook page! TruHart1

I hired Uriel when he visited my city last spring. For me and my tastes, (BFE!) he is a tremendously exciting sexually enthusiastic man. He may be 5'7" but he is solid muscle and tremendously exciting to spend time with! For those who may remember J.C. Cortez, (now retired) Uriel has that same intense, committed energy level to his love-making! I look forward to seeing him again in 2018. He is simply excellent! :) TruHart1

As a client, I have many regular escorts who DO charge less for the second and third hours. A few of my guys actually charge only half their hourly charge for the second and third hours! In addition, over the five years I've hired a number of my regulars, none of them have ever raised their fees for our sessions from what they charged me originally, though they may be advertising higher rates now than when I first hired them! TruHart1

Oh MY! Rimming @peterhung85 all night long! Now that sounds like the best of dreams...along with cuddling with him all night!!! Of course, every part of Peter is dreamy! :) TruHart1

Each time I hired Adam in his home, he gave me very strict instructions on what to say to the desk clerk and made a point of telling me to not say anything when he opened his door until I was well inside and the door was completely closed. For that reason, I believe he was probably among the most discreet escorts I've ever met. That makes me speculate that perhaps another escort who did not like the man himself may have had a hand in the "complaints" against him. There are also those men who desire the sexual interaction with another man but then experience remorse or guilt and feel (like some politicians!) they must remove this temptation from their lives! I guess only the police know where the complaint against Adam originated. TruHart1