big-n-tall

Muscle tends to get me in the door, as it were. However, it’s usually their personality and interactions with me that keep returning. That’s what truly enriches the experience. Muscle is icing on the cake. Also as I stated it’s not purely about muscle, especially after subsequent meetings. I have oft told the story on the forum about a provider, whom when we first was muscled. He stopped “juicing” and became a bit chubby. He was afraid that I wouldn’t want to see him any more. ...to the contrary. I still see him because he’s still handsome, he’s still an amazing kisser, he’s still has a sexy deep raspy voice, he still responds to me sexually the way he did before, and we still have loads of fun together in and out of the bedroom. I just look for information where they directly state some of the things they like outside of escorting. I also look for how they generally respond to the questions. Sometimes a guy sparks my interest but when contacting them they seem a bit distant or gruff in response. Then I’ll see additional things like video from their twitter page, that shows you more of their personality (and I’m not just talking about their sex vids lol). A prime example of this is the escort Coleossus. I was very attracted to him physically and I liked what he said in his rm interviews. So I contacted him. He was very upfront and polite but something about his response kind of cooled my desire to see him. I didn’t rule him out, but I diverted my energy to other escorts. Eventually I discovered his twitter page. He seemed so enthusiastic and ready for fun in a lot of his vids, my interest flared again. Besides that fact, he doesn’t seem to take himself too seriously and has a sexy voice. So when the pandemic subsides and if he’s still working... I’m hiring him. ? Many of the guys I’ve encountered, after getting to know them have many of the same interests do. For some, I kind of had an idea from reading reviews or their rm interviews. For the majority though, I guess I have just developed an intuition at picking good guys that like things I like beyond sex and the physical. Some of my closest regulars have become dear friends. Even though a number have retired we still talk or get together and just enjoy each other’s company doing whatever.

That’s why I read the interviews on rm as well as the ad copy. Some times you can tell more about the guy from his interview section. It mostly hasn’t steered me wrong yet.

Am I looking to hire someone who reminds me of my younger self? Definitely not. Lol!! Besides me having way less hair and a few more wrinkles, I still look like my high school picture. In fact, I’m the same weight and size I was my senior year. As I have recounted before, I tend to initially gravitate towards muscled men (athletic to bodybuilder). However, I am into to all types and have hired almost all types. The age range goes from 22 being the youngest and the oldest, mid 50s. Some of the men I see regularly have changed drastically, physically since we first met, but my attraction for them has never waned. Although people’s bodies change, the core of what I find attractive about them (I.e. their personalities, how much fun we have together, how they kiss, how they respond to me) rarely does.

I'll make it easy for you. https://www.pornhub.com/model/tristan-d-daily What's even hotter... according to his profile, he's 40 years old and is damned fine!!!!!

So I stumbled across this guy tonight on pornhub. He has an incredible hairy tatted body and is handsome. I think he's straight (mainly LOL!!!), but in his into's, he states both men and women. Hmmm. I'm very much considering asking if he escorts. He does have multiple videos with a woman, but it won't kill me to ask. LOL!

I came close to hiring him. He had a RM ad that he never fully activated, but I managed to get in contact with him. He was contemplating going to MAL in DC, but was waiting to find out if he would be called to do a porn shoot. He said that if he came to MAL we could meet up and play. Sadly he went and did a shoot for Falcon that weekend. ?

If I were in the same state, I wouldn't hesitate. After reading his interview, I think we have stuff in common outside of escorting which would probably mean we'd hit it off and have a lot of fun in the bedroom.

I'm going to add another memorable escort... Max Gianni. I saw him 3 times. The first time was not long after he started escorting and it was for an overnight. I waited for him in the hotel lobby sitting across the room so I could easily see him come into the lobby from the main entrance. My god!!!! I almost lost it. He had on a tank top and skin tight biker shorts. He was a sprinter so is legs, his thighs, his ass where absolutely magnificent even from a distance. He wasn't the deepest kisser but damn, his body was incredible, felt incredible... and the things he could do with his ass where amazing. Shortly after that meeting he had stopped advertising. Luckily we kept in contact and I got to experience that ass 2 more times. For those curious he did 2 porn scenes. http://ist3-2.filesor.com/pimpandhost.com/1/_/_/_/1/3/n/o/B/3noBe/CWUa_quXIAAkyN6.jpg

D.O. and I had a weekend together last September. If the pandemic had not arisen, we'd probably have done another weekend this October. We were working out plans. DAMNED RONA!!! LOL (Before anyone asks... he hasn't advertised in years. I'm not giving out his contact info. Please don't ask.) My list is way too long. The following is a vastly shortened list of the pornstars/actors (who do and don't escort) I would want to see... - Kevin Blaise - numerous Sean Cody actors, but my current most wanted are Daniel and Manny (we almost met years ago when he 1st started to escort. We almost met this year but I injured myself just before the pandemic and it never came to be.) - numerous Corbin Fisher actors, but my current most wanted are Beau (Fisher), Elian, Max, and Donovan - Roman Todd (who did escort for a short time... missed opportunity) - Scott Alexander - XL (tried but he flaked on me more than once... I think I'm officially done trying, but part of me is still interested). - Ricky Roman - Skyy Knox - Lance Hart - Adam Russo - Donnie Argento - Eddy Ceetee - Lucas Leon (We almost met but he mixed up our schedules and never met) - Hiroya - Aden Taylor - Max Adonis (he's just so damned cute) - Ruslan Angelo - Santi Sexy - Denis Vega - Flex Extremmo - Adrian Hart - Ryuji Suzuki - Axton Miller - Liam Cyber - Vander, Jerome, and Cooper Reed (Chaosmen) ... just to name a few. :eek:

You started this hobby too late for those two. They both escorted years ago, but no longer.

Pickled beets are delicious. LOL!!! Ok, I understand your aversion... but I think you're probably going to miss out on some amazing providers because of that fear/aversion.

Why? It's not like he's going to force you into fisting. Are you worried you'll get pressured into something you don't want to do? Now I get being turned off by cetain things in ads, but when it's something like fisting, I'm not sure why people seem to get so "worried". I'm trying to understand what worries people. Sorry for hijacking the post.

And those 3 would be just as hot in an air conditioned room. No hot weather necessary.

Hardly. My hormones are just fine. Not everyone goes into heat because of the heat. sex is the last thing I enjoy in hot weather.

Nope. Hot weather makes me want to lay on the couch, ac blasting, ...watching a good movie. ?

I concur. I like both shows but if I had to pick one, Zoey’s edges out Crazy Ex.

My current favorite show is Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist. It was just green lit for a second season. I haven’t been so emotional about a show in years, it has made me laugh out loud and nearly brought me to tears. I had to fight those damned tears off trust me. It’s also a musical show. The cast is amazing. They aren’t all great singers but it doesn’t matter. The more the show went on the more I loved it. I enjoy Crazy Ex for its innovative songs and how entertaining it is, but emotionally I’ve never been as attached as with Zoey’s.

This is from an interview from 2015... Complete this sentence: I have turned down some genuine opportunities because… I’ve been barred from the USA! (I’m working on a working visa as I write this…) This is from an interview from last year... What really gets you going on a personal level? “My boyfriend Rennie. (he says without hesitation) I kind of hit the jackpot with him. I’ve always been attracted to muscular guys and lighter skinned men. I like seeing my dark skin next to a lighter one. Especially since my dick is black. Seeing my cock enter a white ass is just really hot. Hair is good. Hairy armpits. Hairy legs.

If you've seen most of his personal vid work, he definitely has a type. Again the way he talks (which could be all bravado to keep up his public image) he really dislikes bottoming. I've heard him say it on cam/video and read it. I doubt he'll bottom (if he'll even entertain the thought) for you without monetary incentive. Of course it's all moot until you meet him and see if sparks fly in your favor. ?

Possibly, but that's why I said to the OP, to ask him if he will or not. Making assumptions because he didn't expressly say he would or wouldn't is a fool's errand.

Going by his OF content the images in his ad is his current build. He has put on more muscle and let his body hair grow. I think he's over the lean muscled model look. LOL!!! In speaking with him years ago, he doesn't like to bottom, but at the time he was willing to if you paid extra for it. As he evolved into his current aggressive daddy muscle bear persona, I think he's even less likely to bottom. You can ask him yourself to be sure, but if he does bottom expect to pay more money. I wouldn't keep my hopes up about it though.

‘The only new ones I’ve seen are the singer Charlie Puth singing different jingles. Charlie is very cute but I don’t think those are homoerotic. So It’s probably not those particular commercials.

I think he’s barred from entering the US. When he first started to pop up everywhere and then begin to escort, he actually came to America. I was a member of his fledging website and did cam shows with him. During his lasted planned trip here to escort, he abruptly canceled. He mentioned something to the effect that he wasn’t able to enter the country. I can’t remember why exactly. Being as he hasn’t attempt to return since. It might be a very long standing or permanent situation. After the pandemic you stand a better chance going to him.

When he first started listing I believe he had straight or bisexual up for orientation. In talking to him (via text) he seemed like he was more into women, but willing and able to have sex with men. However, over time, I think he may be drifting/drifted more towards men. I've checked out his onlyfans account and he seemed to get more and more comfortable with gay sex, especially when Tryp Bates entered the picture. He has a lot of content with Tryp, who seems to have turned him out a bit. Maybe he realizes he's more gay than bisexual. He's definitely evolved toward gay sex since I first contacted him. It's even now reflected in his current ad copy. I was tempted to hire him before, but his current frame of mind makes him a must hire imho. FYI more & more porn actors who classify themselves as gay have been doing mmf/ffm scenes. Straight for pay does indeed exist... especially when money is involved. LOL!