Weren't he an Nick Capra also in a relationship? I can't remember if that was before or after JJ.
Last I heard, admittedly a couple of years ago, Sean was alive, well, and keeping a low profile and trying to build a life near Seattle. However, in late 2019, he was named as a defendant in a rather bizarre attempt at a lawsuit and was described in court filings as a "missing person." So who knows what is going on.