Just by way of follow-up, I scheduled a meeting with Alex that was cancelled by American Airlines (they changed my flight). We set up another meeting and were going to finalize the plans the day before, but he never contacted me. After the time I thought we might meet passed, I did reach out to him to make sure everything was okay. He apologized and suggested we meet, but it seemed clear to me that he was not going to contact me. I'm sure something came up, but I do like reliable men. Guess that's what I get for trying to take on a twink.