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ARRGH. Well thanks, and um.............in the words of Emily Latella............nevermind

Oops. I'm answering my own newly created thread here, in that I just noticed that the link lists him in Florida. Is he no longer in NYC? Should I take down this thread?

https://rentmasseur.com/iamyourguy Hello gents. I've searched the threads for the above guy whose name is of course Cal, but in those threads the discussion of him tends to get a bit lost in other things. He is certainly stunning looking, but in my advancing age I've become a wee bit shy about going to younger masseurs, not to mention the investment. And while I know as we've all discussed here before there is a lot of chemistry involved, what I am hoping for here is that one or some of you who have had direct experience with this fellow will pm me with perhaps a few more intimate details or the possibility thereof. Many thanks in advance.

Frank, could you pm me about your experience with Cal. So my type, but have some questions. Thanks.

PM me.

I actually have met him socially not for massage and know that he is working to compete. He is dedicated to the sport of body building and is much bigger than when I first met him a number of year ago. He lives in my neighborhood and we always say hello and I ask how the competitions are going. Really nice guy, and maybe a bit shy. I had no idea that he was doing massage until this thread. I think I would be just too uncomfortable to go to him as a client, but if anyone does, I'd sure like to know what kind of massage he's giving these days. PM is always acceptable.

Good lord. They look like twins...Caleb and Colin. Maybe they are partners.

Thanks. As I said ...giving up for now. I'll continue looking for the right splurge.

Thanks for this reply. Darn. Well, maybe someone has had a better or more recent experience with him, but for now I guess this isn't the one to get back in the pool for. At least not yet. Interesting that his ad is listed as "erotic" in one of the three massages offered.

https://rentmasseur.com/CalebNYC Admittedly been out of the massage hunt for awhile. The old libido ain't what it used to be. But now and then....well....you know. Anyway, saw this lad's ad today and could only find one reference when I searched his name in the forum and that was that he was appealing but the price was prohibitive. He's incredibly appealing and just my type from the pics, and I might be willing to splurge because I don't do this nearly as often as I used to. But like always, I would first like to hear from my fellow massage seekers. Anyone have any first hand knowledge? PM's are always fine.

I have a friend who advertises on masseurfinder and he said today that he thinks the site while still up has been abandoned. He hasn't been charged for his listing in months but is still getting calls from his listing on the site. I've been away from The Spa for a while, and caught up with the thread about M4M but haven't seen anything about MasseurFinder. Am I just behind the times right now or is the seeming ghost site of masseurfinder news? Thanks

My experience is pretty much the same as Rubitright. There was a period when I saw him regularly. At least regularly for me. I think the description above is pretty accurate. When he first started advertising on CL I recognized one of the pictures. I had lost touch with him over the years. However, I googled the other pictures and saw that some of the pictures weren't him but lifted from model albums. Still I was curious and when I contacted him he remembered me so I knew in fact it was Ryan. Saw him once and he came to my apartment. He has always been a bit more expensive and his massage was still the same. Friendly, some sensuality, very concentrated and a kind of basic HE. I guess I'm glad to know he's still around but don't feel the need to repeat.

So fascinating the different takes on this fellow. Over the years I'd look at him on various ads and early on I couldn't tell from his ads if he was strictly therapeutic or not and eventually I think I just found other guys. I always thought he was amazingly attractive. Agreed that the recent ads show how he's aged, and I actually think it's kind of clever that he has them all mixed in so you don't quite see the age progression. Glad to hear he's a nice guy. Kinda wish I had tried him out many years ago.

Really discouraging all round. Even if you are attracted to the real Ron, if you were hoping for faux Ron to show up at your door, wouldn't you be outraged? What are these people thinking? Do they think that the client will simply be too uncomfortable to back out?

I too have been kissed by a masseur, but I'm also a bit of a germaphobe, and I kind of think no matter how attractive the fellow was if it happened at the first massage, I'd probably be uncomfortable.

Ok I'm adding to the bump because I needed to say what a great topic this is/was. Being a geezer myself this is an issue I've dealt with now for several years and hearing all sides of it from different perspectives is/was great. In some ways, my inactivity on this board over several months is parallel with my massage experience. Just kind of going through longer lulls in the libido and for someone who was highly active and generally always pursuing a massage, this is new territory. Hope folks will continue to add to this discussion when they see fit or give it a bump now and then and new people enter new territory. Thanks again to all.

I like some stretching but not exclusively. Tend more toward the Swedish preference. Any notes on HE? I'm noticed him before but never followed up. PM welcomed always.

Wish he had in calls. Maybe that would lower the price a bit and I would think of giving him a try.

I saw him a few years ago. I can't tell for sure if he is in a new place now from his ad, so if you are interested make sure it's clear where he is. At the time he lived in Queens, but it was just one stop out of Manhattan on one of the trains and I can't remember which one. He had a nice apartment in a somewhat industrial section that seemed on the way to gentrification. I went on an afternoon, and not sure what it would have been like at night. And I didn't know this until I actually called him for his location. He implied that the location would put people off and he wanted a chance to explain that it was only one stop away on the subway from Manhattan and only a few blocks from the subway . His apartment was nice but average for NYC apt and I had the feeling that he had not lived there long. He was cordial and very friendly, very masculine, and I was looking for a decent massage with extras. The massage was done on his bed. Very easy to talk to but didn't talk too much during the massage. He looked pretty much like some of his older pictures, but he keeps changing his look. He is tall and to me the most recent pictures make him at least to me look a bit too thin. Nevertheless, at the time I thought I might go back to him because although the end of the massage was the the standard HE, I was pretty sure if I had asked for more he would have complied. As I said, I thought I would go back and while I thought about it several times I never did. I actually sent him an email through one of the massage sites about 2 months ago asking him if was now located in Times Square and this posting made me realize he had never replied.

Having looked at his website and all the surrounding publicity I would be extremely doubtful if his massage was anything but therapeutic. However, that said, if you go and it's not just strictly therapeutic I would sure like to know.

He does have a beautiful face. Looks like a musician. But he's expensive for taking a chance.

Oaktown, unless I misunderstand your question, I was trying to say that while there is overwhelming evidence not book an appointment with Cam, there is something about him and the way he describes his services that calls to me. However, unless someone presents a strong reason to change my mind, I won't be giving him a call. But, illogically I grant you, if money were not an object at this point, I'd probably go just to see for myself. Hope this makes sense in answer to your question.

Dammit. There is still something about him that calls to me lol. Well.....um...I guess the body is one thing that does. But he sure seems to promise a lot and is certainly using his body in a way that advertises more than just a therapeutic massage...or at least a little bit more. He looks and sounds like everything I'm attracted to, and yet the comments here definitely make it an unwise investment. If someone new decides to give him a try I'd sure like to hear about it, but ........right now, I'm restraining myself.

Well put.

I don't quite get the logic of working nude and not applying HE, Is the idea that if a HE occurs then the masseur has broken the law? I sometimes feel the same way about advertising that features a guy's beautiful body all muscles and flesh, but is strictly therapeutic. What am I missing?