BenjaminNicholas

If the provider keeps a busy travel schedule, sooner than later is a smart move.

A con is very different than a fantasy. Just like a hooker is very different than an escort. Sure, in the end it's a business transaction, but details and intent are everything.

If you can sit through Wildhorn, you can find a ton in NYC right now to see as well.

I don't see Brightline doing well at the moment, as ridership is low and they're offering a lot of incentives (free ubers to/from) to get people to ride. The last few times I've been on it, the trains have been pretty empty. I hope that changes. It was a huge amount of money and a lot of other train projects hinge on it doing well.

I think it's important (healthy) to have both casual and paid sex as an escort. You cannot mentally allow yourself to fully monetize the act. It will ruin you in the long run.

A spray bottle for lube? Jesus... How many body parts you trying to slick down at a time? Pam could work.

OP, you really didn't find anything when searching?

I wouldn't consider it an intuitive business model to try to get a deposit AFTER a missed meeting. It's the reason you ask for the deposit beforehand. It's incentive-based collateral to make someone keep their schedule. If a client flakes, he flakes. If the excuse is an understandable one, you make the call as to giving him another shot. If not, you just move on. I don't tend to dwell on those who have wasted my time.

I mean, the safest place for this is a gay bath. Less safe (and sexual) would be k-spas, locker rooms, gyms, large sex segregated spas, nude beaches, etc.

Hasn't happened in awhile, but if a guy needs to shower, I tell them to shower. I'm not precious about it. That's the kind of shit a grown adult should know to do before meeting up.

You don't make serous money working an hour at a time. He's too immature to attract the big fish. You don't take the bartender to the table. You fuck him at the bar and find suitable company for the dinner crowd.

Cold therapy is very beneficial. Google it. The research is there.

Wow. That must have cost Here Lies Love a small fortune to have to put everything back to the way it was. Sad it didn't run longer.

I was approached years ago by a small, but well-known publishing house in NYC. I was asked to write a sample chapter for them to look at. They didn't like how I blurred the more juicy details. They clearly wanted a tell-all (or something like one). I said I'd be more interested in writing it as fiction. Alluding to, but not directly pointing things out. I tried to frame it as good for them to avoid lawsuits. They didn't budge. That was the end of me ever wanting to write a book.

Is The Broadway fully back to a traditional proscenium stage?

He doesn't have nearly enough engagement to warrant affording that unit. Even with roomies. Someone is likely having mommy & daddy as guarantors. I wouldn't consider renting a small apartment as 'living the dream,' but perhaps I'm old and have seen too much to know better.

I've never been stiffed on my rate for time, but was once taken for a rather large hotel bill. Client was a solid guy for 15+ years. He was visiting NYC. Suite at the Carlyle. His card was giving him issues, so I graciously put down a cc and he agreed to make sure I was paid back. I didn't think there'd be an issue. There was an issue. A $24k issue. Moral of story: Don't confuse being gracious and being stupid. I ended up getting my money back. From what I was told, he eventually ended up dead, pulling this same bullshit on people who weren't so understanding of his con.

I'm here for this brand of low-key shade and blatant truth.

Don't forget about the incredible Christmas party that RM throws for their premium members.

There is no average in this industry... There never has been. It's the nature of a fringe business. The limited amount of escorts who post here aren't nearly enough to make for a proper average. Email who you fancy. The escort will tell you what his weekend rate is. You can confirm or deny it.

You can ask, but don't be shocked if the experience is affected. It's why I never continue a conversation when someone begins negotiation. I thank them and move forward. If you get your price, that's great, but it always going to be the elephant in the room with any escort with decent business sense.

Y'all shit on Queens, but it's like you've never visited Forest Hills. The Gardens are beautiful, safe, walkable and with massive, well-appointed homes. I won't say I love all of Queens, but the places I tend to tread, I truly enjoy.

That's not going to change anytime soon. There's no longer a shoulder/off-season in NYC. Broadway ticket prices aren't going down either. TDF, TKTS, digital lotteries, etc, are all the way to go for discounts.

When you look outside your window, do you still see Al Jolson dancing the charleston atop a flagpole?