BenjaminNicholas

The gay self-loathing in this thread is overwhelming

With the very-now attitude of the femme guy having more acceptance and visibility, it's interesting to see the growing divide within the community between those who identify as masculine and those who are feminine. Personally, I've always liked the leather scene for it's hyper-masculinity. It's attractive to me.

Everyone is a newbie at some point. Some are legit, some aren't. I think this board is pretty savvy about quickly figuring things out. Those who come with an axe to grind are easy to target: Trolls can't help but show their obsessive nature.

Very sad story. It was only a matter of time before the Broadway community faced a version of the #MeToo movement.

This kind of thing isn't new and it's certainly not going away as long as the space is worth something. The Gaiety NYC closed in 2005: I still have odd dreams about that mylar curtain.

I just came here to eat popcorn and watch a weak attempt at character assassination

Perhaps I was British in another life and it's seeping through... https://writingexplained.org/theatre-vs-theater-difference

Turn. It. On. Any account you have that offers it, go through the trouble. I learned the hard way this afternoon not having it 'on' Twitter and it took several hours to get access back. This was not before several posts were made on my behalf, causing some serious headache. This has been a public service announcement https://www.securenvoy.com/two-factor-authentication/what-is-2fa.shtm Edit: Yep, I misspelled my headline. Wow, that was bad. I'm now creating my own escort-hybrid dictionary

Have had my own issues with these types and I'm sorry to hear of your trouble. I think other people here gave great advice: Block and ignore.

But you're forgetting their 'It's Christmas in July!' movie-schlock... And it begins now. Brace yourself.

Agreed. Especially since The Golden Girls comes on Hallmark Channel from 9pm-12am, so that leaves me just enough time to clean up and turn on the TV

Dear lord in heaven... That looks insane! Peace be with you sir. XO.

These are things an escort should divulge up-front. Hey, btw... I snore. I'd suggest the same for a client. It makes things easier in the event one or both need to carry Ambien or ear plugs.

A version of what you're saying makes sense to me, which is, if you're very openly gay... Choose your travel with care. Don't make things tougher on yourself if you don't have to. If you're unable to play the game for a little while and butch it up a bit, it's probably best you don't visit some of the places mentioned.

Exactly. Most important: Be a smart, aware traveler. Don't let your dick get you in trouble, but also don't let politics sway you from seeing new places. It's no big secret that the rest of the world can function very differently than the United States. If someone is uncomfortable with that fact, it's probably best they stay put.

If you have nothing to hide, no one can hurt you. And for me, it's worth the money and background check to avoid long lines getting back into the States.

Everyone needs to interview. No one is immediately rejected. Calling yourself a terrorist is a little over the top, don't'cha think? They clearly found something they weren't comfortable with in the background check. If that wasn't the case, perhaps you share a common last name. You can dispute their rejection.

Let me also recommend you look into the Global Entry program. It makes life a lot easier. https://www.cbp.gov/travel/trusted-traveler-programs/global-entry

Email the guy. Don't ask here.

This. 100% Living in the bubble has consequences.

ZING!

At the end of the day, it's easier to sit behind a keyboard and wax poetic about the dangers of the world without actually having seen them. I agree with Dave on this: Travel is a privilege... And one that shouldn't be wasted. Keep your eyes open, your head up, but don't let fear keep you from immersing yourself into someplace totally different than what you're used to. At 6'3" and 205lbs, I stand out nearly everywhere I go. I can't help it. Yet, no matter where I've traveled, I've never felt afraid.

That's fine. It's your prerogative. Just not mine Singapore is beautiful with great food and, in my experiences, very friendly people. I've also visited Kuwait (Kuwait City) and it was fascinating. The world was meant to be seen. For me, at least.

Have you ever been to any of the places mentioned?

You can't judge the food until you've tasted it. I have been to many of these places and I've never felt in danger or hated.