BenjaminNicholas

But here's the statement I want to seriously address: If you have so much to lose that you can't ask an escort to leave your hotel room or, better yet, take a gander at them through the peep hole and make a quick, private judgement call, then perhaps this isn't the hobby for you. There's a certain level of risk you take in scheduling time with an unknown/untested product. You have to be realistic with yourself that there will be an indeterminate amount of what mass retail calls shrinkage. Wasted money. Loss. I agree that my response was a little flip, but then again, I have worked smart in this business to afford a bit of that now and then. However, I stand by there being multiple ways to vet an escort before meeting. You don't need to offer them a tit-for-tat, what's behind door number two. Be straight forward and just ask for updated photos, photos with him holding a written date (or three-fingered selfie, or whatever the young'uns are now doing), Facetime chat, etc. Offering cash for integrity is putting the cart before the horse.

It suddenly all makes sense that green has always been my signature color.

This was a truly brilliant line. Bravo, sir. Bravo.

They are different. The biggest thing being that they metabolize in completely different ways.

As long as you're comfortable doing that and he's receptive, that's awesome ? So many docs don't keep up with where meds have gone (and are going). They're stuck in the 'take two amoxil a day and call the nurse on duty if it gets worse' ideology. That's why- for me- finding not only a gp, but also an infectious disease specialist has been the silver bullet. Now I feel medically well-cared for and as an escort, that's perhaps the most important tool in our arsenal.

It's gotta be the right gray sweats: Fit is everything. These two sites sell a wide variety of nicely cut sweats: www.asos.com www.boohooman.com

I mean, if an escort doesn't look anything like his photos, he should be asked to leave anyway. If I got this email, I'd ignore it because it smacks of someone playing games. But that's just me.

Agreed. To get your Slut Equity Card, you need to suck a lot more dick.

https://www.poz.com/article/ondemand-211-prep-prevents-hiv-even-sex-infrequent That said, it's a regime that splits many infectious disease docs: Some will recommend it, some won't. YMMV. There's not an end-all-be-all stance on it. Personally, Descovy for PrEP has almost zero side effects, so taking it on the daily isn't something I'd be all that concerned about. Eventually, there will be something new- and better- along to take its place (likely a longer-term injection from what's being said).

Yep.

FACT: Vaccines keep a myriad of deadly diseases at bay. I always get my flu shot. Never had a side-effect, thankfully. I am fully vaccinated not only for my protection, but for the health of people around me.

Hormone Replacement. T-level boosting. Legal juicing (basically). There's also Peptide Injections and HGH (Human Growth Hormone). They can all have great results, but they also come with ugly side-effects if used long term.

If you're busting a nut, that ain't a traditional massage.

You just nailed it. Consenting adults don't need to be judged. Findom is nothing more than power-exchange and roleplay. Don't forget that the 'slave' is the one who's always in-control. When the money stops, the findom is finished.

You really have to see this from both sides. This is the way guys make their living. Bottom line: No matter how handsome you may be, that doesn't pay their mortgage/rent. I have a couple of regulars who are younger than me and equally as fit. No one gets a 'pretty discount.' That's watering-down my business.

It's a pop-up on a gay hookup site. I'd say no. But don't take my word for it. Here's what a doc has to say: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19694609/how-to-increase-semen/

Not so much fell for as landed solidly on top of

I've had the same issues, but with wind/flood writing in South Florida. It took USAA to get me the policy I needed and even then it was more than a few hoops to jump through. Worth it for peace of mind if you're in a danger zone.

The NYT, DMN and Tribune are printed on local press. The others are mailed.

*raises hand* Yep. NYT (daily) Dallas Morning News (daily) Chicago Tribune (Weekend) Key West Citizen (weekly) Variety (tried daily and it overtook my mailbox, had to go weekly) All print. I love newspapers.

I mean, it's written by Paul Rudnick and directed by Jay Roach, both guys known for comic satire. Ultimately, while I enjoyed the writing, the performances are given a little too speech-like to be as funny as they could have been. I found most success came from the cast who painted a strong character portrait, not the most angry political commentary.

That's the point. If you know you can't afford a guy's rate, don't start the convo asking for a discount. It starts things off on the wrong foot. If someone did that to me, I'd immediately thank them for the message and then add the address to my ignore folder.

I love brilliant satire.

I mean, I've done plenty of these cruises with clients: It's really just a frank conversation as to what the expectation is. If your client wants you to himself, that's what you do. If he wants to use you as bait to bring in other guys, there's that. If he's fine with you fucking around as well as the personal time he gets, that's fine. There's also the option on him being the anchor client for the trip, paying a lower rate and allowing you to see other clients (ie, pax) on the side. The problem with that is that there's no guarantee of that being a financial success and the escort has to make sure to be incredibly discreet. Even a mega ship is a small bubble. The captain would have the right to kick a pax off the ship for suspected prostitution.

I've done both RSVP and Atlantis. To me, they both feel outdated and play to a demographic I don't quite understand. That said, unless you know an employee at Atlantis and can get their very small discount, there's no way to bring the price down. If you're looking to bring an escort with you on a cruise, you're much better off doing a normal boat and spending more for a better cabin/ship. To me, the premium you pay on Atlantis just to be able to be trapped on a floating gay bar isn't worth it. YMMV. If I had to cruise in a GLBT accepting environment, I'd much prefer a line line Virgin or Viking.