I think he would be insulted and I cannot risk that in terms of his feelings. He insists that i don't pay but of course I do. He asks me to stay longer to snuggle with him afterwards.
He genuinely feels a connection with me. Btw, this is going on for at least 7 years and I am attracted to him as well. It has really become complicated. But, as i mentioned, I go a lot less often because all i really want is an erotic massage.