SeanPlayTime

Great responses in this thread--I hope you take them to heart. And speaking of hearts, how about considering changing your screen name from "bigfattie" to "BigHeart"? 

Please take all the great suggestions from the previous comments on this thread! There is some awesome advice on this thread for you!
 
Welcome to the forum, @bigfattie! I understand your reservations, better than most. I have only been hiring for less than a year.
I am a virgin with men, not with women, so this has been a whole new experience for me. Having sex with men, has been an interesting and amazing journey. 
I am a much bigger guy than you. I am 6’ 1” and weigh 285 lbs and I am 64 years old.
I truly thought I would find one or two providers, who would give oral, rim, top or bottom me. To my pleasant surprise, every provider I have contacted was very supportive and willing to provide all the services that I was curious about. Even though I prefer being a Side, which for me entails, oral, rimming and other fetishes. 
 
The key to a successful and enjoyable encounters with providers is fairly simple. Most importantly, communicate clearly what you want and need. Also, be kind, pleasant and respectful, which you sure seem to be.  Of course, being really clean and hygienic, which you are. I also am always on time and give a tip for great service. 
 
If you follow these steps, I promise you will a number of great providers to choose from. You will be amazed how much fun and great sex you can experience! 
 
My only regret in exploring my gay sexuality is that didn’t start hiring years ago!
Get out there and find some great providers, who will give you the tools to explore and enjoy some awesome sex with a variety of guys! 

Good advice above. One more piece from me. Your problem isn't your weight, it's your self-esteem.  You aren't so big that you need to lead with it, or even point it out. 
Change your name to something that highlights something good about yourself, and enjoy!

First time exploring. Chatted with him about his planned visit to Pittsburgh.
Any one here have feedback?
 
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Thanks for all the well wishes!  It was really great.  Nice guy, easy to talk to, made the whole thing a great experience!  Totally down to earth guy who was focused completely on me......not something I'm used to!

"Who hurt you?"

Idiotic response..

Not my own observation, but from a meme I have seen:
"These days there aren't that many men named Lance.  But back in Medieval days, men were named Lance a lot."

Well, I thought instead of waiting around to see what someone else said, I'd take the plunge myself.  Run, don't walk, to this guy.  He's one of the very best when it comes to consideration, care and kindness, a completely sweet guy who keeps communication open, touching base, and then delivers on the experience.  He's got a great place, but he is kind, and understands what's needed,   It doesn't hurt that he's hot, and pleasing to look at.  His English is a little weak, not bad, but there isn't anything on the negative side at all.  A 10 out of 10.  

I have met him several times. Highly recommended 

First time exploring. Chatted with him about his planned visit to Pittsburgh.
Any one here have feedback?
 
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