mrkileen

Half upfront, half after?

Something that has been on my mind alot lately.... I recently hired a guy who has impeccable reviews for over 10 years and I was utterly disappointed. His breath was terrible and he had body odor like he hadn't showered in weeks. He was very unenthusiastic when he arrived. It got me thinking, what if when guys hire and they smell bad or dont have manners, what if thats why they dont have a good experience? When one of the members here mentions they didn't have a good time with a provider, their account can be misleading. Do we ever ask for the providers side of the story? Or we just assume that when someone comments on them that their word is gold and that they tell the whole story. I've hired many times over the last 4 decades and I've heard just about everything there is to hear. I think each experience is unique. I think we should take what one member says with a grain of salt. We will never know all the details and because of one's ego, someone hiring will probably leave out important details. Just because 50 guys had a good experience with someone doesn't mean we all will and vise versa. Just because one of us had a bad experience, doesn't mean the rest of us will. Thoughts?

I saw him in Los Angeles last year. He was great. Very outgoing and charming. Great kisser. Good and hard pounder but also done with care

I saw him the second day he put up his ad and he is a heavy shooter and everything he mentioned he fulfilled

Ive seen him many times and he is absolutely wonderful. I am retired with disposable income so a few hundred dollars with this man was worth every penny for me.

"Blocked but dont really care", yet you cared enough to create a forum for this? Hmmmm

I dont understand how you would factor in what another individual may or may not pay in taxes. If you tip other service based providers it might be a good idea to tip these guys too.

He's amazing! Spent an entire day in Miami with him. He was wonderful. Checked all the boxes!

As a man more into young blonde guys I can say that Diesel_Daddy is amazing in every way I hoped for

You could always tip after. And how are you paying? Through Venmo or PayPal? What if your bank blocks the transaction for some reason? Are you talking about a new provider or someone you've seen before. They dont know you. You have to pay for Uber before they show up. Same goes for seeing a movie. You purchase the tickets first. I always pay providers upfront that way we can both relax and enjoy the session. If they're too polite to ask and it's in the back of their mind the entire time whether you're going to try to stiff them or not, you might not enjoy the session as much. I've never understood this logic, you seek someone out, want them to accommodate you for a service and not pay them for it? Seems like it's all about you with no consideration for the provider. The good clients pay upfront, no problem l, that way the provider feels at ease and can concentrate on you without worrying. What if you said after the fact that you didn't have it, or if your bank blocked a money transfer on one of those apps, are they just stiffed for the money? Not a successful business model, nothing in it for the provider if you can't understand they want to safeguard their business.

Probably someone with a high sex drive that enjoys being admired and quick cash. Could open up a fun world for you if you can bare it. Not everyone's cup of tea. Your call.

Is this guy really that impressive?

Not everything you read from the broke, grumpy old men on this site are true. Glad you had a great experience

It is a requirement for you to hire someone that is specifically attracted to you? Your best bet might be a dating site not an escort site 🤷

I always considered my previous wages at prior jobs in this regard. They have a set rate they work for. These guys constantly get flaked on and lowballed. If you were looking for employment and your offers were even slightly lower that wouldn't exactly get you excited right. I am very thorough with who I hire and when I do I take care of them. I pay upfront and have been doing so for years, I have seen they can't truly relax and focus on me when they are thinking in the back of their mind whether someone is gonna try to rip them off or not.

If you fall for them then they are good at their job. Don't confuse your feelings with theirs. I am very aware that absent payment, none of who I've hired would ever look my way or talk to me. Im glad I've been fortunate to enjoy what I have. If you can't get the person of your dreams the next best thing would be to pay for one?

I always ask my regulars providers questions that im curious about and one of the most common things i hear are things like "do you want to cum? Do you want a bj/hj?" Most of them say something to this effect, respectfully so "dude, I dont have to rely on clients for a release, you're not doing us a favor, everything just depends on the vibe". Many of them will say that alot of clients dont brush their teeth or aren't freshly showered. How are they supposed to be turned on when basic hygiene isn't met. We wont always be a match with the provider we pick, however I will say with time some will warm up to you, some won't. Just like in the dating world, you wont always be a match. I appreciate the provider’s I've hired who aren't much into me but still do the deed with enthusiasm and politeness. You can't expect everyone you're into to be into you. And that's okay. Its a hit or miss. I have several regulars amd I'm thankful for them, no surprises, no awkwardness. Almost exclusively they have all told me it doesn't matter how the client looks but more important is how they're treated and how their hygiene is. In conclusion, I believe for best possible outcome I would say be as accommodating and respectful as possible. Be showered with your teeth brushed right before and be respectful of boundaries and that's as sure as you can be that you'll get the outcome you're looking for.

Mark is my go to guy when I visit Chicago. His place is very clean, he is very polite and I am always greeted with a smile and warm strong hands.

Matteo is a wonderful person with a beautiful body and a great smile. I see him practically every time I visit Las Vegas Nevada

Hottie hairy hunky!

I looked after you mentioned. I didn't see them. But my vision is very bad. I am old.....

It looks like he's only following other adult providers and onlyfans models. I have to say he is a Dallas Cowboys fan, that's the only thing bad I have to say about him 😄

From what I read alot of guys on this site are unrealistically picky and doesn't sound like anyone is your type! There's no perfect guy, we're all just human beings.

I find it interesting how so many guys ask me such vague questions but want specific answers 🤷‍♂️

Definitely deserves an award! 👌 👏 😍