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Gosh, I agree. What is the psychology behind them 'faking'. Just to tease old men??

42? I limit them to like FOUR before saying we meet in person or we're done. Too many online fakers.

A year later and I've met one who I thought MAYBE might work out...but he lied about his age. Too young. Much too. Another would have been the one...right age, former Abercrombie model (literally an Abercrombie model) but was just soooooooooo messed up in terms of his life. Like, several CW bad boys in one. And not the good kind of bad. Arrest warrant bad.
 
But like some others on this board who have money, I'd rather find something semipermanent versus constantly seeking new rent men.

Maybe he doesn't want everyone knowing his business like being seen with you. I remember one the members here telling me about a kid he was going on cruise with. Paid for the cruise along with the hefty price tag to have the company of this guy. Kiddo found out some people he knew were going to be there so the deal was stay on opposite sides of the ship till bedtime.

I've gotten several of these sorts of requests. Of course my first question is the name and address to which I should send the ticket.
 
Seriously, I encounter about equal numbers of guys with realistic versus unrealistic expectations. Some guys are astoundingly clueless but some are touchingly sincere and modest. There's all kinds and it's an exercise in finding the hidden gems. They are definitely out there.

I had a guy ask me to buy him airfare and tickets for Cochella - before we even met or spoke on the Phone. And he meant for HIM, not for me to go with him!

I've only been a SA member for 2 weeks. My experiences include:
 
- being approached to help start a business in Cologne Germany, "Send 30,000 Euros so I can start a hair and make-up studio"
- after a get acquainted dinner with a ensuing massage session, the boy jumped up, blocked the door, and demanded $300 cash.
- "Send me a Uber, I am late for my first period class" via text message to my phone, with NO prior contact.
 
More to come...

[uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] is right..."seeking..." takes a bit more work than say RentMen. My experience has been that it's a hybrid of personals site and Adam4Adam and Rentmen, lol. I've chatted with guys whose "allowance" ranges from ZERO to thousand$/monthly. I don't meet the high end monthly allowance types, I prefer pitching a visit-by-visit arrangement on a semi-regular basis. Virtually all the young men I've met have been happy to meet for coffee, lunch, etc. for a first time no obligation meet, those motivated young men are as interested in a personal "connection" as I am before moving to the next step. (Honesty here - I have been stood up for that first coffee/lunch meet a couple times). Of Those that show up, a HUGE percentage are happy to head to my place for some more intimate time.
 
It's been great and a LOT of fun for me. I'm the type that is patient and I enjoy "the hunt", I know from previous postings not all of you like the "hunt" like I do. I'm still learning, getting better figuring out who is going to work out for me, and more importantly knowing when I'm chatting up a time waster or someone looking for a quick buck.
 
Best luck so far have been university students, with out-of-work actors (yay SoCal area!!) a close second. Busier student/work oriented guys my best matches so far. I'm enjoying spending the time invested in talking to these guys. In just the short time I've been on there I've made two new friends who art NOT arrangements, just friends!!
 
Currently I'm in the lunch, second date, and intimacy stages with 3 different guys. I've got my eye on "one" who might for longer term .

Just FYI, I prefer longer term arrangements with clients, too - I think most escorts prefer semipermanent regulars. It's safer, more convenient, and it allows a deeper connection to build over time (for escorts who offer more than the physical).

I've been with Angel Diablo a couple of times. Great for worship, did kiss, large endowed....and fun fact, a foot fetish top. A rarity. Loves getting them worshipped. Downside- can very chatty about non-sexual things at times. I perhaps did not want to hear about certain personal problems.
 
Probably some others but Angel is who sticks out. Besides Jason Adonis who i previously mentioned as being waaaaaay to chatty. Way more than Angel.
Waaaaaaay more.

I looked at the SA profile I had set up a few months ago and had over 200 messages.
That site is like the Wild Wild West compared to RM.

The terms of the financial elements of your arrangement are whatever is agreed-upon - weekly, monthly, ad-hoc.... I've found interest often gravitates toward the first of the month for rent and at times that school tuition is due.

I have used SA for 4 years. It does take some time and effort to find a decent sugar babby. I usually ask how the site is working for them. Most say they have had little luck or never met anyone. I then ask to be specific in what they are looking for out me and what they want. Some are wishy washy and others are very clear. Most want me to offer them something. I don't want a live-in or a monthly arrangement so I state I want a casual thing that works when we both can match up our schedules. I offer a one night $$ amount and a weekend (two nights) $$ amount. It is not a lot but it seems to satisfy most sugar babies. The ones that want thousands of dollars are not even chatted with again. I say that is too much and leave it at that. Some do negotiate and I listen to their offers. Sometimes we come to an agreement and other times it does not work. What is the best situation? It is a young man who digs older men and does not want any money but just expenses paid...or minimal amounts for spending. They basically use SA to find cool and sexy older men. Yes...there are a lot of young men on SA using it for that reason. I had a few really cool and sexy jocks that were fun and and we enjoyed our time together. I had a couple of duds that knew nothing about having good erotic sex. Then I had one who was adding money during sex in order to go on....he was sent home that day. Overall....great site but it takes work. I like to spend more than an hour with a guy and I like to connect. It works for that reason for me and is far less expensive than an escort.

I've had three very good experiences on Seeking Arrangement. I was a regular, so to speak, of the first one on-and-off for about two years. He just wanted cash. The second one lasted for six months, and he just wanted me to take him out on a big shopping spree regularly. The third kind of fizzled before we got serious, but it was still very sweet and hot... They were all young - 19 to 22. I did get hounded buy a lot of "sugar babies" I really didn't want to meet up with though. But then I just made my profile hidden and that solved the problem for the most part. I took a break from that site, though.

MANY have be scammed once only to open their door after answering one his his fake ads to find him standing there again. He way out WEIGHS me but fortunately a low IQ and decades of pot work against him. I was in corporate furnished housing in LA and when he took his first steps in I told him this was just the "meeting" apt for safety MY apt was above and I grabbed keys and turned him around pretending to follow him back out then slammed the door on him. (even in the 3 0r 4 steps out he was asking for his "donation to his "bodybuilding" fund" lol. ) He stayed out in the hall a long time complaining until I threatened to call the sequirity guard.
He scammed me once where I DID feel threatened (he had nun-chucks) and blocked my exit from his filthy Burbank apt until I paid him, and now he wasted another night. *I got VERY even later sending him on a wild goose chase to an empty lot in Malibu, the story is on a thread here somewhere

Ugghhh Scott Sloan...luckily I'm a bigger guy than him...but I had to almost physically fight him to get him to leave. He was a huge scam
Artist.

Many posters are aware that Scott Randsome was one of the most notorious assholes/hustlers/scam artists in the "business." You may have had a good experience with him, but dozens of other men did not--and I was one of them. He completely lied about what he would be willing to do and displayed a terrible attitude throughout the humiliating encounter. A vicious evil person in my view.

Yet another headless wonder...

EXACTLY! If anything, the more they protest, the more busted the face is in real life! It's never even close.

Plus the text of his ad has been "borrowed" from one or more other masseurs (such as Luca in NYC).

No disagreement at all! I can't tell you how many times I've asked for a face picture, only to be told, "I'm a male model. I need to keep my face confidential." Once or twice I actually met up with Mr. Reticent. It was never the person in the picture. That excuse of "being a male model" is so over-used one wonders why new fake reasons aren't made up. I'm sorry this faker made you jump through hoops. I think it is dreadful and unethical.

5-7 means 5-5.

Most likely you are correct. I would send him a thank you note for saving you time and money.

What is your motivation, really? You sound like you would want sex or something else in return. Seems like a bad idea, like you are starting a brothel or something. If that is your intent though, go for it.

I met him last night and he's the real deal. His pictures are accurate, he's a nice guy and he was just like how he described himself on rentmen. Earlier someone wrote that he's mostly bottom but he told me he was more top and he was a good one. Someone else said his english is not good and I disagree. While his written english in texts might not be, his spoken english is really good. I highly recommend him.