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...and someone had the nerve to ask me who was saying HIV was not a big deal.

And this whole notion that having HIV is no big deal is BS. Sure SOME people live with it. BUT you're unambiguously healthier without it. And there is more than one strain , and not every one reacts well to and/or can afford the various medications.

Seeet Jesus the word "fake" is two posts above! No that's not him. That's a model from Florida.

I've had guys SWEAR that the pictures are real and of thembefore I make the appointment and STILL not be real or them.

I have had guys show up who are not the guy pictured....50% of the time I send them on their way. 50% of the time they are close enough. They are the ones taking the risk of making a trip for nothing. But I don't like the lying. The problem really is that if they have shirtless or even nude pics - showing up fully clothed as someone else entirely means you have to let them in and see them undressed before deciding. And then it is awkward kicking them out. So I have literally made guys take their shirts off in the hallway outside my door. And still sent them home. Luckily I am a big guy (and I have a metal bat right by the door.)

You can reach via his Instagram which was provided. I've seen him at Adonis LA. Nice body, not for me though. He was polite when I declined a dance.

This whole thread is unnecessarily mean.

OR...if you can pick a mate for physical traits that are largely or entirely immutable, or "intelligence" or sense of humor - also difficult or impossible for some to change- why not pick one for money?

But fetishes for non-sexual body parts themselves are not common. Most straight or gay men do not have foot fetishes. It's just a fact. Far from most. I wish it were otherwise- especially in regards to foot tops. But its uncommon.

You want to date, not just have sex. Match has income too.

Oh yeah...BB is a no no for me. Good catch.

TOP posited that this is a very common fetish. It's not.

Dick pics do zero for me. I need a handsome face.

Again I find it hilarious (like laugh out loud funny) that any self-described sugar daddy finds $80 a month expensive. I shit that out after lunch.

These are accurate statements. For real.

And your point? Gay men and straight men alike mostly ONLY date and marry people who meet some exhaustive list of physical attributes. That is somehow better than dating or marrying someone who makes or has money? Plus looks fade. Money earns interest

But that's all a trophy spouse or SO is, really!

Huh? You think people don't want boyfriends? Or husbands?

I'm super cynical but at least one guy I met WAS a young guy into dating older guys and money or gifts never changed hands. So it Does happen. However, MOST important of the guys on the site at least want a rich boyfriend, or in more extreme cases are literally rentmen guys I recognize looking for more steady gigs. The former makes them no different than half the straight wives I know in Manhattan- and not a few of the straight husbands. Income IS very highly correlated with the likelihood that a straight person has multiple marriage opportunities. Fact. And a hot boyfriend/rich boyfriend arrangement is better than an escort one.

Sure. He still sounds racist. Two separate posts where the only way I read it is "black men from big cities have criminal records." I do not by the way. Not even a traffic ticket, ever.

Nope. I posted your ENTIRE quote. EVERYONE but you thinks it was racist. That says all you need to know.

Yep. You said BLACK escorts have criminal backgrounds: "Everyone deserves a second chance, even if he is a convicted criminal, which is not the case presented by the OP, but even in that extreme case I would consider the circumstances to make a decision. Circumstances are everything. Specially those of us who like playing with young black urban boys from the hood, you better have an open mind about criminal backgrounds." I've been with plenty of white escorts, and plenty of THEM have criminal records. A few got to three strikes. But I don't recall any of the threads about them (or other criminal white escorts) talking about their race at all.

Uhhhhh.... you CLEARLY implied black men have criminal records.

They lie about and change their location. So many who WANT to live in NYC or LA say those places in their profile but are really all kinds of other places. I've noticed quite a few who say "I actually live in Florida but you could fly me there" or " once I graduate I want to move there."

I agree with all of this^, but am disappointed when, before we even meet for coffee or Skype or whatever, they start asking about money or "how generous " you are. It's too much too soon. I don't ask them up front the sort of intimate questions one asks a rent boy, so why do they start haggling on price?