Alex Hawk

I don’t do it regularly but I definitely enjoy the feeling of a ball stretcher - OxBalls makes several good ones.

“Boys in the Band” 2018 revival ”To Kill a Mockingbird” recent revival (saw with Jeff Daniels) ”Take Me Out” 2022 revival “A Doll’s House” 2023 revival “Topdog/Underdog” 2023 revival An Enemy of the People” 2024 revival “A Streetcar Named Desire” 2025 revival (Brooklyn) I’m still relatively new to serious theater but have been making up for lost time since @sf westcoasterfirst introduced me to the magic of Broadway in 2018. If I had to narrow it down I’d choose Doll’s House, Enemy of the People, and Streetcar. All fairly stripped down productions, which is controversial but usually works well for me. I think it lets the playwright’s words really resonate. These productions effectively demonstrated the contemporary relevance of their older source material.

I remember discussing at intermission, “Do some of Jesse’s other contracts prevent him going full frontal in this production, since nearly everyone else has (other than the other Jesse, of course, who I thought fully earned his Tony win in the show)?” And then shortly after intermission we realized, “Oh, no, they simply saved the best for last!” A couple hours later, while waiting for the restroom at a nearby bar, I was checking out a very hot guy at a nearby table - and then realized it was the same stud I’d just seen naked on stage!

“The Hunting Wives” was great escapist fun, and certainly steamy to boot.

I recently saw (and enjoyed) A Very Natural Thing, supposedly the first gay film intended for mainstream audiences. It reminded me of a remarkable gift given to me and a friend by an established gay man who thought we needed an “education” so he logged on to Amazon and ordered twenty or so DVDs sent to our homes to watch, trade, and discuss. Comedic classics like “Priscilla Queen of the Desert”, “The Birdcage”, and “To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything”, inspiring stories like “Love! Valor! Compassion”, “Milk”, and “Pride”, and mainstream heavy-hitters like “Philadelphia”, “The Normal Heart”, and “And the Band Played On”. A couple of more recent gay films I’ve enjoyed: “Good Grief”, “Rustin”, and the remake of “The Boys in the Band” (although I thought it was better on Broadway).

This sums it up well. It is absolutely within a patron’s right to request modifications, and for most the answer will come down to what the ask is AND potentially a whole host of things. What it should never come down to, in my opinion, is the attractiveness of the client/patron. The provider bears the responsibilities of making and keeping their place of business an attractive choice when someone is deciding where to give their business.

Exactly! You never know when the “chef” may be in an experimental mood, and the answer is always “no” unless you ask. But if you ask, and the answer is no, that doesn’t make it a bad restaurant. And if the pizzeria Does sell sushi, is it likely to be the best sushi? Every time someone asks me to provide services outside of my strengths, I think about how I “could” do it - but that’s not the type of business I run, so I refer them instead to a highly-rated establishment specializing in whatever it is that they are hungry for.

I like to compare the client/provider relationship to that of a diner and a restaurant. The restaurant/chef doesn’t care where you’re from or what you look like. They care that you can pay for your meal and don’t try to rewrite their menu. And if you’re kind and courteous they’ll be happy to see you when you return - particularly if you tip in cash! On the flip side, if I visit a restaurant that can’t deliver a good meal and some hospitality, next time I’ll find one that can. Exactly 👍

Thanks @mike carey! It is my first time here since it switched over to Company of Men. It’s nice to be here

I have had two such sessions as a patient and thoroughly enjoyed them. Would love to repeat!

I dated a really kinky guy and he paused while fucking me once to piss in me instead. I’ve always thought it was hot because he was generally pee-shy - didn’t even want me chatting in the bathroom while he was peeing - but that day he was so into the sex that he was able to pee, no problem.

I’ve gone under in a few sessions and thoroughly enjoyed them. The session with Neil the Erotic Hypnotist is on my JustForFans. I also enjoy watching videos and listening to files from several content creators: Daddy Duncan, MindFoxx Muscle, The Shadow Priest, Muscle Mesmerizer, and Ultra Hypnosis come to mind.