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I hired for the first time a few years ago around age 47-48. Up until then I had only slept with women. About 10 years ago I accidentally clicked on a gay porn clip and said to myself you only live once, and I think I want to try that sometime. It was then I kinda realized I was probably bi sexual since it turned me on. Some years passed before discovering rentmen, it was then I began searching for a decent match in my area. Since I was new to rm, I hired someone who advertised erotic massage not really knowing what to expect. I thought even if actual sex wasn’t on the menu I’d at least be getting my nervousness out of the way for my first time being naked with a man. I hired the same masseur a couple more times (no sex, but I was content with the mutual touch/ oral) and a nice massage to boot. Just this past December, I felt like it was finally the right time to “graduate” lol. I hired a guy (based on a recommendation on this site, thank you very much) and he delivered beyond my expectations. I was only looking to bottom.. it was great, I loved it so now I’m really looking forward to my next hire even more to try a 69, topping, and of course getting railed again 😊

Awesome! Anyone with minimal rm reviews I always like to ask on here first.

I did not.. but we messaged each other and he’s supposed to let me know the next time he’s going to be in Philly.

I had a provider I was seriously interested in hiring send me a very uncomfortable message, all because I asked another client of his a question about him out of curiosity. I guess the client must of told him what I asked (it was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary, just basic stuff)

Hey, if this is your fantasy then you should have it play out exactly as you wish. After all, you are paying for it. I’m sure you’ll find many providers who will accommodate you! Just be upfront about what you want, it definitely worked for me 😊

Great advice. This is exactly how I started and I couldn’t agree more 👍

I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not.

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I think this should only apply to first timers not really knowing exactly what to expect. My first hire was a provider who advertised “erotic massage” which could mean a variety of things for someone with no experience. Because he advertised on RM, I was under the assumption erotic massage COULD HAVE meant sex. I was not disappointed at all, enjoyed everything he provided, but definitely left “wanting more”. Again I wasn’t disappointed whatsoever, but now I know what exactly to look for in future hires depending on my mood.

Anyone met him recently? Or if you would prefer to discuss any details in private, please message me 😊

Ahh, I did have the terminology wrong lol. I am not looking for a woman masseuse but indeed a masseur 😉

I’m interested in any recent reviews also.. I saw he’ll be in Philly in November for a couple days

I have to say this is my favorite purchase from Amazon.. it’s perfect for me

Interested! Been looking for a new masseuse in Philly.. dm’d you 😉

Sad to see Classic is no longer open. Richard was the best 😞 I’m curious about other Philly options also if anyone has a recommendation