@Glennn, I started hiring at Rounds, a hustler bar in NY City, about a decade before this site existed. On my second visit, I met someone whom I liked right away. We decided that he would soon travel from Long Island to Philly, where I live. He was a college student, but very experienced, so he became my version of HooBoy or Daddy. Still I had to learn through trial and error. I particularly remember, a second appointment where the guy asked if I wanted him to leave. I still do not understand why. To me, things were going well. Escort agencies were still around. I learned from the agencies and the guys who worked there as escorts. Unlike you, I am not married. But, I have talked a enough people who are married to know my situation is very different. I believe you did tell your wife.
It helped that I was several decades younger than you when I started hiring. Please enjoy your new life. You are almost 74 years old. There is nothing you can do now about your son's circumcision, or your own circumcision. I was born in Austin, Texas in 1943; my brother in Lowell Massachusetts in 1949. We were both circumcised. Try to accept circumcision as the way things were in the south and the north in the years when we were born and when your son was born.