https://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2017/11/08/heather-unruh-detail-family-member-sexual-abuse-allegations-against-kevin-spacey/CVdUBuLLboflu7sOFIjIfL/story.html
I suggest we read the Boston Globe's story again before going so far away from the actual facts.
"What happened next, Susan Unruh alleged, was criminal. She said Spacey purchased alcohol for her son until he was drunk and then stuck his hand inside the man’s pants and grabbed his genitals."
The drinking age in Massachusetts is 21-years old, not 18.
If someone whom I idolized did that to me at age 18, I would be extremely upset and remember it for the rest of my life.