Still fairly new to this hobby and need some advice. I really love to worship, serve, and please a guy. So, when I hire a provider, I do it to suck his cock, worship his feet, eat his ass, watch him jerk off, and have him cum on me. I communicate my desires pretty clearly, and every provider I’ve been with has been down to accommodate that.
Here’s my question: how much am I expected to direct the action? Am I supposed to dictate things play-by-play?
When I have been with guys I have hooked up with, when I am sucking their dick, they pretty much dictate whether they are standing up, or lying down, or face fucking me etc. I am pretty orally talented, so I always make them cum, but they are in charge and I am more or less submissive.
But with the providers I have been with, they tend to stay in the same position unless I say, “let’s try it with you lying down on the bed “or “do you want to fuck my face”? It feels like they are waiting for my direction. I’d like them to tell me if they want me to change position, go slower or faster, or lick their balls, etc.
I might be answering my own question here, but should I just say at the beginning of the appointment “by the end of the hour I want to have had, X, Y, and Z, but I’d like you to be the dominant one and decide how and when we get there. What turns me on is making you cum, so tell me what you need me what you want or need me to do to make that happen.