The "Politically Correct Police" may have an issue with most creative works from years past. A good solution would have been for any "Program" that may have been distributed comment on the need to understand in todays world how different people were treated in prior generations. Use it as a learning tool and not a tool to offend. I think in context this could be done.
ask you husband to go for a workout with you at a time when you know the manager/owner is there. maybe they wish they were the one you were interest in.
I think you need to pause for a moment, then speak with your doctor. I believe you mentioned that your recent health issues involved a operation of some sort on your heart. Depression is a fairly common for individuals having a major operation.
Sorry to hear what happened. I always have my wallet out of site and no where to be quickly found. I have the fee (plus reasonable tip) for time, available but just out of sight. Should my hire find the fee money, that is all he is getting.