José Soplanucas

I got the answer in gayguides. I was advised to avoid those places, and to look for staying further from Parque Lleras, the touristic hot area where an anti sex tourism and prostitution campaign is focused.

"What is it Like to Have a Lesbian as a Teammate?" Is that the question that you repeatedly claimed as not answered? How can you not see that your question cannot be answered without calling out its implicit bigotry? And then, when you explain your question in the OP body, you just add more. Several posters have explained clearly how wrong your mindset is. However, you have not yet apologized. It is not about judging you or your moral character, but just about assessing this particular situation. Do you not see the mysoginy and lesbian phobia transpiring from your wording? Amazing.

I opened the Club Argentina and then realized I do not have time to keep up with so many outlets. People are asking me to join and I am rejecting them, because I want to delete it. I am a well established asshole, but I do not want to overact the role. How can I delete the club I created?

Feliz cumpleaños!

I am laughing alone. Super recommendable.

So you project your own limitations onto everyone else.

I just remembered that I was including with my signature a link to all of my reviews published in the old Daddy's Reviews. That link is no more functional. Is there a way to link/access all of that information? Thank you!

I am researching airbnbs in Medellin. Some of them, in the house rules, explicit forbid visitors in order to avoid sex tourism and procuring. Is this a formal legal wonder that no one cares about? Should I avoid these places? Thank you to the Medellin connoisseurs!

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I had not signed up to A4A since June. Today I tried for the first time, and I am redirected to a Terms and Conditions screen. Weird. I am using the app with no issues, though.

You are right. I apologize, I should have stayed on my original post.

It is stigmatization because an anonymous poster makes such a serious accusation and you and others run to believe it and to assume the worse.

You do not need to ask me. Read my posts as carefully as I should have read your comment about lies.

Hey, I am not triggered this time. I insist, you are misreading my posts. You are running to judge and "held accountable" someone after hearing only one part of the story. You repeat that I said it is OK to lie, which is only in your imagination. You are suggesting that this man should be reported if he has committed a felony. If that is not HIV stigmatization and sex negativity, we may just have very different mindsets. Anyways, I do not really care about having a debate with you. I was trying to give advise to the poster, whether or not he agrees with it.

Please, read my posts more carefully. I clearly stated that the escort acted wrongly. I am not justifying his actions or saying he has not responsibility. The fact that you are misreading what I clearly wrote, allows me to think that this IS about HIV stigmatization and sex negativity.

Correct. Obviously, your arguments do not convince me. You jump too quickly to judge one of the parties without knowing both sides of the story.

Let's be clear: I disagree.

I am not sure. Many gay men are miserable human beens who would report this guy in a blink, no matter his circumstances.

In my case, all of the above.

I just came from an annoying situation where I would not understand what a waitress was asking me in a coffee shop. Unfortunately, it looks like we will have to mask up for a very long time.

I am sorry for the bad news, but fortunately nowadays it is not tragic, as other posters point out. I would not report him. You may be not that promiscuos, but your wording gives us enough clues to tell he is not the only one who may have infected you. If you had unprotected sex with him, you probably also did the same with others. Am I right? Additionally, I do not think that you should look at this in legal terms. Whether or not this is a felony or a crime, does not help to your situation and to your relationship with this human been. Whatever reasons led him to hide his status and to not protect you, I doubt they were coming from an evil nature or intention. I think you know now how hard to cope with the news is. Who knows what circumstances took him to make this wrong decision? Try to see the human side of the issue, not the legal one. I would have a conversation, or several ones depending on our relationship, trying to make him understand the importance of protecting his partners. I would not try to convince him to disclose his HIV status in his profile. In my opinion, it is private and he does not need to do it to protect others. I would make sure he knows how I feel and how easily he could have prevented it. Just remember, we are assuming he infected you. If I am not wrong, and you did have unprotected sex with others, As you insightfully understand, in case he did infect you, it is not only his responsibility. His decision to have unprotected sex knowing he was + puts more weight on his side, indeed. However, you cannot blame him for your own decision. It is true, you would have probably acted differently should you knew the whole picture. However, you knew better and you consciously decided to take the risk. The same goes for everyone who decides to have unprotected sex. I am really sorry, and I do not know what I would do in your situation. I do not know how emotionally affected you are. Whatever you decide to do, do not make any decision now. Please, wait until you are able to think rationally what the best thing to do is.

Feliz cumpleaños to one of my top (pun intended) favorite posters: @WilliamM

Oh yeah. I am slightly deaf, and listening is my weakest communicational skill (imagine!). I have problems conversing in Spanish with masks on, in English can be just hellish for me. Interesting.

Just let me clarify that my major concerns are not my health, as reasonable measures (vaccines, mask, etc) make me feel safe enough. My concerns are more related to unexpected changes like what just happened to me, being forced to extend my visit to Buenos Aires beyond the original plan because of regulation changes, or local crisis related to the pandemic that may affect traveling plans.

If more variants keep coming up, and vaccination levels keep being this low and this uneven not only across the world but also within countries, traveling internationally will imply taking risks for a long time. I cannot (do not want to?) wait.