That is the reason why I carefully worded my post saying that @FreshFluff is "contributing", and not stigmatizing. I did notice the difference of status. My point is that the age difference remains, and depending in context it could be implied that every older man trying to hook up with younger boys is morally condemnable. If KS actually abused someone or many guys, criticize him for that, which is condemnable beyond age, status, or any other consideration.