I just think when you get older, at least for me, I just enjoy the peace and quiet of just staying home in my adjustable bed and catching up on my ON Demand TV shows. I also think, at least for me it has to do with a decreased libido, as I was tested for low T, and never followed up with treatment because I had the 2 surgeries pending.... I am lucky that I have a great sex club where I live, that if I do feel the urge. I just go, pay my $17 and get off.... That usually will last me for the month.