I think all guys secretly wish they were bigger, even the guys with big cocks want a bigger one because of how guys are attracted to it.... I've researched and heard horror stories, but the amount of length you are realistically able gain is so minimal that I wouldn't chance the procedure. And since I don't top, and have settled into my "cocksucker" role, my size don't matter. But I have come across many situations where my partners wanted me to be HARD, and I wasn't able to get there....