I think I was born ORAL.... While I have tried anal in my gay formative years, it was never my thing and never enjoyed..
You can imagine how difficult it was / is to find partners with a restriction of ORAL only.. And while I have always been the Dominant in my relationships, they still for the most part remained Oral (although I did give in to anal on special occasions like birthdays , with ME on the receiving end....Go figure) Guess my relationships were never traditional ?
As I have gotten older and my boners are unpredictable, guys have told me that seniors often result to anal because they cant fuck..And I reply that if your partner is also a senior with an unpredicktable Boner....THEN WHAT ???? If Both participants have "softees", then you have to result to kissing, rimming, nip & butt play.....which works for me pretty well... I suppose to moral to MY story is I have never regretted or missed being fucked OR fucking....