Yes Very different, but whether its a personal preference or a racial one, its still the subjects CHOICE, and his reasons for making those choices are irrelevant. They are HIS choices to make. The fact the WE disapprove is not his problem, its ours.... And the word "consensual" is just that. Not Mandatory. So we are basically condeming a man for making a consensual choice simply because the element of Race, which bothers US, comes into play ?