You can not be responsible for what others think about you. All YOU can do is be confident in yourself and who you are. Rejections comes with lifes territory, whether you are overweight, old, bald, etc, etc... Really nothing you can do about what appeals to people. If you notice in my pic posts, they run the gamut, and I try not to exclude anyone, or types they might find attractive. everyone has a right to be acknowledged and respected.. If something is not your cup of "fruity Sangria", just move along. there is no reason to be rude, mean or outwardly judgemental (of course we all judge, but if its internalized, its more respectful and civil.)