Great topic and I certainly don't want to overthink it or moralize, but I've found that hiring escorts by age, culture, background, or whatever convenient little box I've invented is a pretty unsuccessful way to predict who I'm actually going to vibe with.
I suspect we've all hired someone much younger and thought, “Damn, where have YOU been all my life?” — and then met someone our own age, from practically the same background, and spent the next 20 minutes wondering whether faking a sudden plumbing emergency would be believable.
I’ve had some fantastic experiences with guys I supposedly had absolutely NOTHING in common with. Different age, different education, different culture, different life experiences — and somehow the chemistry was instant (yes, happened recently in Indy). Meanwhile, I've met guys whose RM profiles checked every damn box and whose photos had me practically licking the screen... only to discover in person that they had all the personality of a damp washcloth. A very attractive damp washcloth, perhaps, but still a damp washcloth.
Age isn't a personality. Culture isn't a personality. Education isn't a personality. And sharing the same demographic boxes doesn't mean we're going to click — in bed or out of it.
People are weird, complicated, sexy, surprising individuals. That's half the fun. Keep an open mind, give people a chance, and judge the actual guy rather than the category you've put him in. Sometimes the person you'd never expect to connect with turns out to be the one you're still smiling about the next morning.
Don't judge a book by its cover — and definitely don't judge a man by his birth year. Some vintage editions are classics, some newer releases are impossible to put down... and occasionally the gorgeous bestseller turns out to have absolutely no plot.
MEME:
“What type is my vibe?”
Hot, fun, interesting and doesn't make me check the clock.
Rentmen EXPECTATION: “His profile says we're PERFECT for each other!”
Rentmen REALITY: “Nice ass. Shame I'll never hire him again.”
Chemistry doesn't read Rentmen Profiles.
