tristanbaldwin

...Thanks to all of you who chimed in on my behalf...! During one of my intermittent 'responding' phases I was just able to message the people in question, and at least extend the olive branch of communication. Just got back from Phoenix, where AZDR0510 broke me in half, running up Camelback Mountain again. One of these days I'll catch up to you....! -crawls across Finish Line-

24" waist. LOL. 120 lbs total. Good lord. I'm afraid if I sneezed it'd kill him...

Thanks, TruthB! I truly do 'enjoy' this game- and not just the aspect of what *I* can get out of it...but more so knowing that I'm participating in an industry where everybody is kinda taking care of everybody and doing the right thing...that's real good energy, and the type of thing that helps you wake up in the morning and not regret what you do. With the dancing business- I've long told some of my guy dancers...you don't wanna be one of three stallions, amongst a pack of average horses...you want EVERY guy in your stable to be strong...because the long term benefits of it are greater to you. Dancer A does a great job at a party; well they're not going to probably wanna see the same guy again, variety is the spice of life....so they're still going to go with the same COMPANY, just pick a different stallion. Same concept here. If all the guys in Pittsburgh are ripping guys off and doing a shitty job, no one in Pittsburgh is going to ever wanna take a chance at doing these kinda connections. However, cities that have reputations for having strong escorts- that benefits ALL of us; so I'm always intrigued to see who's doing good work or not.

LOL! Love it!

JD Phoenix scoffed at the idea of meeting a 50-somethingish man in the Albany NY area who I've seen...oh....only like 30 or 40 times. Awesome client, clean, discrete, intelligent...married and on the DL...and apparently JD thought he looked too old and out of shape to see. Articulated as such in a text message to him. Way to win hearts and minds. Does JD understand that not everyone you're meeting in a session, was born to be on a porn scene or on TV? While we're on the matter, someone feed that girl a cheeseburger, because in all honesty I don't think a twink like JD Phoenix belongs on a screen either. How does he like them apples? TB

I've been dying to see Laos and Cambodia...be sure to post us some advice on your end on that spot as well! -Jordan-

Wow Marl! Thanks for the backup and the additional intel on Singapore. My last night in Hong Kong(not Singapore), I had a Rendez-vous at a Novotel(my first time at this brand), and they were gorgeous- but just as you said...a disaster for escorts and discretion. As far as the expensive meal- was this at a sit-down and table service Curry place, with actual waiters? I've noticed the mainstream restaurants with western style service were priced well above the norm; but the market style restaurants were dirt cheap.. Marl...I love that heat. Soak it in like a sponge! =) Thanks for the second opinion on Singapore; I didn't get out to Clarke's Quay at all, but did get to Chinatown...

I leave my legacy somehow, someway....so I guess I'm content that this is it! Had Airlines not done away with the effect of 'status rides' and 'mileage runs' by going to a completely revenue based rewards system, my legacy would be by attempting to accrue as many skymiles as possible but spending as little as possible in doing so. Cheap ass Tristan! =)~ (For the record, though...there are a few frequent flyer clients of mine who BLOW ME OUT OF THE WATER, when it comes to finding cheap tickets...just when I think I've found a gem, they find one even better...LOL)

Not a problem, y'all. I'd be more in depth but my internal clock is still way off from the flights and time changes. And I definitely think threads like this by the escorts would be useful- for instance, I know you've encountered a bit of central Europe, Mike...poland, right? Would love to hear about that...I think perhaps we start a trend where guys that go 'off the beaten path' with really different destinations, share some feedback for the rest of us? Trav- glad to hear your Thai friend did well in Singapore; perhaps there's different audiences for different types...and perhaps he charges different rates? There certainly were no shortage of people who pointed out that "I can receive XYZ local Thai or Indonesian escort for 150", to me. I never respond negatively to such people, I merely pointed out that my travel expenses were fairly large, and I was hosting them in a 2 Million dollar condo from AIRBNB(no exaggeration, I lucked out..), not some back alley place, so I felt that it was kinda warranted, to charge US level prices. (Truth be told, I even CAME DOWN off the US Prices, by just a hair, in order to have it be a rounder number in SGD.) Again, maybe it's cultural difference thing. I can usually put up an ad anywhere and make it work...and it was tougher than usual in Singapore.

(For Escorts and Clients alike; take this as you will...) Since it seemed like the type of unusual place that not so many of the guys on this board visit, I thought I'd take a few moments to share some of my experiences here, and keep guys from either making an expensive mistake / going into something knowing what it will be and what it WON'T...so they can concentrate on having a vacation, etc. First- getting here is not going to be one of the cheaper destinations you'll find. Expect to find it around 800-1300 USD, from most places in the US, economy. Had a ticket set up from BDL(Bradley field in Connecticut, our small little airport), for just over $1000 to Hong Kong...so I looked up how much it'd be to make it multi-city, and stop off in Singapore for a time- only increased the price by $160 and change. So I would NOT do this place as a 'standalone' destination, but rather as part of a larger Asia itinerary. Second- Hotels. No offense to the clients from Singapore that might be on this page; but they are very picky about the location of hotels. If you grab a place down by Sentosa Island(the resort area), you'll be too far away...even though the Metro out in Singapore is phenomenal. It'd be like staying out in Oakland, while you advertise in San Francisco- there are going to be a majority of people who just can't or don't wanna swing the trip. Also, you might find a great deal on Orchard Road or in the Geylang area of town on a four star hotel- but believe it or not, some clients are gonna find those locations unsatisfactory as there is female prostitution going on nearby(Case and point- for one day of my trip I was staying at the 4.5 star[believe me, it was NICE] Orchard Hotel, on Orchard Road. Right next door is the infamous 3 star 'Orchard Towers', also known as 'Four Floors of Whores'- where there are probably 400 female or transgender prostitutes randomly rolling around.) Many clients didn't wanna be anywhere near that. Also...if you grab too 'boutique-y' of a hotel, security at the front desk is most certainly going to wonder what is going on, as almost every hotel had the dreaded keycard-activated elevators. You'll have to do alot of tapdancing to stay off the radar screen. Transportation- As discussed above, the MTR is phenomenal and everything worth seeing is pretty much a few blocks off the line. For those of you fitness guys out there, a great way to see singapore is to wake up decently early- like 630/7AM, and go for a walk or a run, several miles each day- and divide the city center up into quadrants and really walk and run across it all. The hustle and bustle and crowds don't start till 9 / 10AM, so you'll be on pretty vacant streets. Food- American food brands will be ultra expensive out here. For a mixed drink and a pizza at California Pizza Kitchen(on the final day of the trip I was craving a taste of home)- it was the equivalent of $42.00 US. (Frame of reference- roughly 1.4- 1.5 SGD for every 1 USD.). There aren't a ton of huge grocery stores(called 'Cold Storage') here, there will be lines even getting into small places like 7-11's. The majority of people in Singapore stock up once or twice a month, then eat out quite a great deal. There are places like 'Lau Pa Sat'- an open market with all sorts of food stalls where you'll get chicken, race, soup or a small salad/vegetables for literally 5 SGD- 4 bucks US. Portions are just a hair smaller then US portions so I found myself eating more meals a day. Probably a good thing in the long run. OHHHHHHHHHH- very good piece of advice here from a west coast client/friend in San Francisco- bring Rolaids, Tums, or some other sodium bicarbonate or bismuth/antacids or whatever it's called, to nullify the effects of all the spicy foods and stuff you aren't used to. In addition- medicinal charcoal is available cheap in the pharmacies to help food poisoning, as is 'arsenicum', something available at health stores here in the US- it'll help get used to the food. Alcohol- very expensive here, if you are a drinker...buy it at the duty free at the airport and bring it in with you, otherwise, you'll get SHELLED. Clients- VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY(Did I say VERY?) Conservative. They won't even wanna be seen on an open street with you...for fear of getting spotted or labeled or judged. Most have never done this before or very infrequently, so it'll require a massive degree of patience to deal with them. Also, because of language barriers(even though English is the working language over there), you'll want to kind of identify how long you're going to be playing for, several times over. Anyone who knows me knows I'm not a clock watcher- I always try and give tons of extra time...but alot of the younger clients here(another reason I don't prefer young clients; they don't understand the nature of this), seem to think they have you for the night. Perhaps that's because the female prostitution here is on that same level- by the night vs shorter session? I literally had a kid show up in my room and start unpacking clothes and opening my drawers and putting his stuff into them-(AT 6PM AT NIGHT MIND YOU), and I'm kinda like..."..Umm..what are you doing...?"- and his response in broken english(he was Indonesian vs. true Singaporean) was "I'm just making room so we have for space for our night together". LOL. Again, this is why I don't go for the young ones- they'd hard enough in the English culture let alone overseas. Sights- Marina Bay Sands is an absolute MARVEL of construction. However, to see the full thing up top(A park, pools, mega beautiful...built like 65 stories up..), you have to be a guest there. Otherwise, it costs about $16 US to go up the elevators just to see the observation deck. In my opinion, kind of a waste- if I could get a room there for $250, I would have rather paid the 250 to see the entire thing, vs. just the 16 to see the observation deck. Problem is, thing was SOLD OUT. I kid you not, not even listing prices on Priceline; all three towers SOLD to the brim. Asian gamblers primarily from all over the Orient, with serious $. Gay culture- About 4 gay bars in the entire fucking city, with none of them having nice terraces or anything outdoors to enjoy the temperate weather- all closed door cement ugliness to 'hide' what is within. A shame. Just waking up and adjusting to the time change here on the East Coast, but I just thought I'd jot down some thoughts.

I'm not sure if 'TPL' is NYCFAN, under a new name, as he says 'I wrote the two reviews on Daddys'; but I know the NYCFAN who wrote those reviews, and he's about as good and as decent as they come. Easy to communicate with, truthful, fun. Even though his travels and I haven't allowed our paths to cross in some time, we still stay in contact about once a week or so...never even about 'work' or anything to do with escorting. A really solid dude- so if he says someone's good; they're good. Have never met this Marzinni myself, but know clients who've obviously seen him and a photographer that shot him, and say good things. Sorry to hear that someone else had difficulties scheduling with this guy...perhaps it's the all-overnight thing that's scaring him away? Try connecting for a shorter period first....speaking from experience, the ideas of newer guys in the industry to overnights can be daunting...

I'm amazed that this guy, with his 'presence' that he touts in the industry...doesn't even come on this board to creep it for information, leads, etc? He'll be thorough enough to have a travelling gang but yet not thorough enough to come on Daddy's Reviews? #Lacking If he only knew what was being said about him. LOL. Such glorious things. I've never met the guy, but a reliable client who is too discrete to post on here(convince his email/information/etc. can be hacked or compromised, or his wife will somehow find out), went to meet him during an upstate NY tour the guy was on. Said that the minute he walked in the room he was surrounded by a flock of guys, and felt really uncomfortable...and he bounced out of there. Client is super nice too...the least confrontational guy you'd ever meet, and even he said it was fight or flight at that point..

Rocky, there's no hard feelings whatsoever! You didn't screw up at ALL, didn't insult me at all! and no one on this board would dare accuse you of being a flake! This is what happens in an industry where we all have similar names...I can't even imagine being a female with all the 'Barbies' and 'Danielles' and what not out there. It's all good, my friend! Besides, if nothing else- at least you saw that there was escorts out there willing to hear you out on all the personal stuff we talked about- and I'd be the first one to 'vet' you and say that any escort would be lucky to connect with you- you are as on the 'up and up' as they come! Enjoyed the conversation! All the best! =P~

I didn't wanna chime in; was hoping it'd steer its own course...but I figured it'd be best to narrow down things in case I'm not what he's truly looking for! To his credit I've heard nothing but great things about Tristan Waters; and I'm proud to have carried on his moniker!

Ummm....Rocky, it's been me you've been talking about and just gushed about.. It was me you were texting and talked to on phone earlier lol... Tristan Waters is still down south to my knowledge...

OMG priceless LOL.

I'll be down in Miami / Fort Lauderdale the 17,18,19 of November! Just booked it this morning, 223 direct from BDL in Connecticut. Score!

The whips are already out and getting oiled up / cleaned up. There is no avoiding the maelstrom of pain I'm bringing down to Florida with me next time.

ROFLMAOOOOOOOOO BigValBoy is on bad boy punishment status the next time I get my hands on him, for never flirting with me anymore! No text, no love, no NOTHINNNNNNNNNG.

Wonder who that escort travelling through the area was. =)~

Just for this, I'm ordering a Captain America outfit. Instead of charging more to see me in it, I'm actually going to give a discount...as long as we both cum on the outfit. God's honest truth...have a client who will gladly pay for cum stained latex, lycra, spandex outfits, etc. We'd just be continuing the cycle...

I remember that! Was it the 57 or the 60? The fuel tanker literally MELTED the friggin bridge!!!!

LOL. OMG! Raising the bar and expectations on me!

*Side Note*- Have an awesome client in Minneapolis who taught me how to tear a phone book in half with my bare hands like it was a single sheet of paper. Cool trick to try to impress people....takes a bit of practice though...and it hurts if you do it wrong!

Gushing at all the positive things said here...and in all honesty, I might have to send Daddy a note to re-word the profile on me, to be less 'wrestling oriented', and the same to Rentboy....wrestling clients make up probably 10% of the guys I see...but I think it's a specialized fetish that perhaps I stood out in, which maybe catapulted me further? Truth be told I actually prefer the sessions which are much more boyfriend oriented...the kissing, the passion, and everywhere it leads from there. With the wrestling stuff, your adrenaline triggers too much and it actually becomes harder for me to 'perform' if I feel I'm in the fight of my life...and believe you me...some of these clients are stronger than you'd think and actually very gifted wrestlers...so injuries could actually occur if I did a move wrong or they, etc! Thus, the more 'normal' sessions really are my bread and butter, don't you worry. No wrestling required. LOL. But....I've already started collecting both yellow and white pages, in case that fetish takes off...