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Like I said I don’t expect it we agree on a rate that’s what I value my time at. It’s always nice to receive but not necessary

Not many maybe like 10 percent. And tbh that’s typically cause we go over time. I’m not a clock watcher so it doesn’t bother me but they like to make it worth my while

I never expect tips from my clients 300 for the hour is more than enough! I have some clients that will tip me like 50 bucks if we go over time

There you go. Pic is gone. Am I now allowed to enjoy this site now that I meet your standards? Oh gosh I sure hope so😩

I agree that beauty standards change. And don’t disagree that a large majority of it is cultural. Never made the claim it wasn’t.

Damn babe who hurt you? And it’s literally my signature if you think im copy and pasting my add every single comment I’m sorry you think that. Sounds like you’re having a rough night. Hope it gets better😊 Says this and then immediately tells me to do what everyone else is doing😘

Because this is a forum about conversation and i felt like responding to your comment? What a nasty response when I just responded to you saying you don’t understand why fat people idolize fit people. Not sure what this accusation is but it’s completely unfounded and is yet another reason why you guys have ran off most of the escorting crowd from this forum. Yikes dude.

I don’t find it insane at all. Being fit is the standard of beauty for a reason. Don’t get me wrong some people find bigger people attractive. But the majority of the population would agree that being fit or average is more attract than being morbidly obese l. And a lot of people who are fat aren’t happy with their bodies. It makes total sense that’s they would find people who are more fit hot.

I ask for deposits via PayPal if the client has flaked on me before. While I agree a lot of the time it’s a scam not always. I only ask for deposits if people have flaked on me as it tends to happen over and over and for my sanity won’t schedule with people like that unless they’ve made a deposit and are serious

I had a client recently get me into ball stretching and I love it. I have naturally long balls so they are perfect for getting stretched!

I think for me it’s because I tend to talk with my clients for a while before meeting so we build a rapport and they realize I’m not a crazy person trying to ruin their life by having their face pic

I receive pics from about a 3rd of my clients usually don’t ask for them but if I ever do it’s just too see who I’m talking to. I never turn away a client based on their looks.

Can I ask genuinely what you guys are referring to when you claim we have a monopoly over the industry? The industry being our time and bodies why should we not have autonomy and full control over those things? I understand being frustrated over poor service providers but you sound jaded. And also at the end of day this is an illegal business it’s not held to the same standard as papa John’s. You’re gonna get bad eggs just like we get bad clients. But genuinely curiosity as to what ya’ll mean when referring to us having a monopoly on the industry.

Because some people are lonely.. some people physically can’t have sex but want companionship.. some people want a human connection that’s not only physical. Just. Few reasons

Also you asked a question and then said your not going to discuss anymore… make it makes sense

It’s disingenuous to say that some escorts provide sex while others don’t? No it’s just a fact there are plenty of escorts that don’t provide sex. Just because you have an idea of what an escort is doesn’t mean every escort falls into that category

Your claim was an escort isn’t an escort if they limit their services too much.. but that’s not for you to decide if I as an escort tell you what I offer that’s what I offer end of story. If it’s not what you’re looking for that’s fine move on but you don’t get to claim that person isn’t an escort. Especially when an “escort” just means to accompany another person. Aka on a date or a night out. Doesn’t inherently mean sex so you claiming that someone who limits their service isn’t what they claim to be is just wrong. You don’t get to decide what a provider offers. If what they offer isn’t for you that’s fine but that doesn’t mean they aren’t an escort.

I mean at the end of the day an escort is a person first. And it’s their body that they can do with what they seem fit. And if they tell you before you meet what they are and aren’t comfortable with and you agree then what’s the issue. There are escorts that strictly do the boyfriend experience. They don’t have sex with a client they just go to a nice date or spend the night with a client. It’s their business and they can choose which services they would and wouldn’t provide.

I mean he was the client I was the provider and I was sober lol I wouldn’t say I’m an ugly goon

Yeah I get constant flakes and my rule is if you flake on me after we’ve already set a time and day. Then in order to for me to set another date with you. you will be paying a deposit if not. Message me at the time you want to meet and hope I’m free

I cum everytime haha what’s the point if not

I agree! I was ended things early cause I was so uncomfortable

Which is exactly why I refuse to do drugs or drink in excess when I’m with clients. It’s not safe for me. And it doesnt turn me on

So I hosted a client yesterday and we start fooling around. I’ve seen this guy once before. And I told him my roomate was home so I’d appreciate it if we could keep the volume to a normal level and he agreed that was cool. So we start playing and he’s moaning so loud…. Like overly loud and I’m like reminding him to be quiet and he’s not really responding to what I’m saying.. then he falls asleep. Not once …. Not twice…. But 4 times. So I’m like dude did you take something. And he goes why and got an attitude. He ended up telling me he took g. Which is fine but he never told me he would be high for our session and honestly it turned me off… but why would you show up to an appointment high as a kite without asking if that was okay.

Hey man honestly I would move on from hiring him.. it sounds like he is taking major advantage of you and is not willing to do what he’s being paid for.. as a provider I can also tell you his feelings are fabricated… I personally am uncomfortable with faking the lovey dovey stuff.. i did it with a regular for a bit because that’s what he was paying me for… but he kept telling me he was falling in love with me and I would not say it back. So it created this awkward vibe. The second you stop paying him his “feelings” vanish. I think it’s damaging to your mental health and happiness to continue seeing him. Now I tell clients first off that I don’t love them but we can be friends and have a good time. Because I tend to enjoy my clients for more than just the sex most are really cool guys that I actually learn quite a bit from. But I’ve had clients text me full screenshots of my rm profile and tell me when they saw me the fell in love.. that’s not love and is a big red flag for me as they tend to get obsessive and that can be dangerous so I avoid it.. I think you should see someone new and just focus on having fun!