Welcome to the forum. Posting is way more fun than lurking.
Well, my screen name here says a bit about me . But....I agree with most posters saying don’t label yourself. It took me the better part of 4-5 decades to be comfortable with myself, and for a long time had little support from my gay brother and gay friends in regards to my self-chosen “label”
I was married to a woman for ten years, have a teen child and today have full custody of the child. My orientation caused some friction in the marriage but was only one of say five major issues and a zillion minor issues that broke the marriage (she and I remain best friends to this day - better friends than we ever were spouses)
I would say to be 100% honest/upfront with men/women as soon as you can when headed towards relationship. This has proven a winning strategy for me since my divorce....and in fact led to one VERY interesting 3 year relationship with a VERY open minded female
You sound pretty grounded to me...keep reading here and keep interacting....and always be yourself.