Do you cringe making an offer to a real estate agent? A parts purveyor? Are you involved in a small business?
It’s not cringe worthy, it’s not disrespectful, it’s not telling them they’re worth less. It’s business.
Well, an escort could have said “no” and. That’s what negotiations are all about. I was alway taught not to be squeamish about any negotiating (business, pleasure) because when you make an offer “the worst they can say is no” i.e. it’s no big thing
Good chance if you go into a meeting thinking the encounter isn’t “likely to be as good” due to negotiation....there’s a better than 50% chance YOU are bringing that expectation to the negotiated meeting.
You’re right...and I did. We lowered the allowance abot 25%, but I sensed some resentment so haven’t called him as often.
I don’t have an issue being honest/open in situations like this. I’ve successfully used the logic “wouldn’t you rather see me twice as often for xx rather than les often for xxx?”. This young man was kind of an exception.
I’ve no problem paying $300 for someone I find really hot and want to meet. Even a bit more if I’m somehow extra intrigued or the gentlemen comes recommended from a source I trust.
That said....my problem becomes affording the same guy for repeats. I paid a bit more than $350 recently for a guy I’d lusted over for months on RM. It was an incredible visit....now he keeps asking me to repeat, and I want too....but the amount of repeat the visit stops me.
Similar happened when I was first meeting guys on Seeking...one of my first dates was wonderful connection and chemistry in and out of the bedroom. Problem was I was so new to Seeking and I offered more to guy than I started offering as my experiences there grew. Now...I want to see him, but he’s over double the allowance of at least 2-3 other guys I’ve met there.
I wouldn’t say “women are just horrible at sucking cock...” I’ve had some amazing oral from them. Men do a great job but perhaps a bit of an urban myth that men are always better. Men DO try Harder!
I’ve met him once about 6 months ago....nice visit. Only reason I wouldn’t repeat is he seemed more of a top as @jeanclaude44 mentions above. That said we had a great time, but he wasn’t as versatile as his advertising would lead you to believe.
All these questions and chatter between posters who can’t answer these questions, lol.
Has anyone actually contacted and chatted with Him? Or just lived vicariously making posts/assumptions here?