JTtorretto

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I’ve said this many times. It’s an incorrect cliche that most clients “have to hire” in order to get laid. This is FALSE. I’ve got a very good friend who’s 62 that has a stable of hot boys [ages 20-25] he’s met on grindr and he’s never needed to spend a dime for them. Rather they all have an attraction to much older men. And I just worked with a very attractive, muscular new escort this past weekend who confessed to being attracted to very fat, obese men; specifically “gainers” (men who fetishize being extremely fat). Therefore, there’s someone out there for every possible body type, race, level of masculinity, age, handicap, etc. And from my personal experience, the most attractive clients to have hired me have never been so tacky to say as such beforehand.

From an escorts perspective; “I’m looking for a regular, so may I please have a discount and we can maybe make this a regular, weekly/monthly ordeal” ?

Couldn’t agree more. It also requires making a CONNECTION in order to build a repeat clientele. I find this enormously important if you are seeking a long term, lucrative career. This past week while I was in LA, I was rehired by 3 separate clients that I’d been hired by previously in SF, Dallas & Chicago, respectively. In the past Ive encountered a couple escorts who expressed they’d rather be hired by a “new client” rather then a repeat client if needing to make that choice in an evening. (Expressing how much more “exciting” it is to meet someone new and the “potential” of them being someone super “special”, “hot”, “wealthy” etc). ?. So dumb in my opinion. A quality repeat clientele is essential.

In smaller markets RM is not valid marketing so I’ve utilized Grindr or Scruff (especially since the death of CL). However soliciting to an easily offended person can get u reported/flagged/banned on these apps; especially Grindr. Thus, I avoid that by exchanging phone numbers and taking the conversation off the app to avoid getting my account deleted. The monitoring on Grindr is extremely inconsistent tho. Recently, I’ve seen guys blatantly advertising in their headline “4Hire??” . I’ve noticed enforcement can also vary by the region your in.

ApplePay as a payment option? Extremely discreet, safe & easy. Only thing required is that both the sender / receiver have an iphone (& u had an iphone the last time I saw you).

When I first started 8hrs = $1000. Then $1200. Next $1500. And as I built up a clientele that jostled for evenings with me I realized I could fairly charge $2000 [8hrs]. It’s my understanding that $1500-$2000 is standard overnight pricing for a pro in NYC. When I’m traveling outside of NYC, I adjust accordingly to the local market rate.

Ironically, I bet the females who were randomly filmed / noticed the camera set up, had no idea that the pervert was ? HOT. Hahaha

DC I believed was always seen as a flakey market (likely due to the transient nature of it). That’s why BlackListedJohns.com [RIP] was initially created by DC based escorts.

Shady clients who get away with actually meeting up with working guys (via a fake number) have tipped the scales of leverage in the equation to their side and benefit. Then, as mentioned above, the shady bastard has more likelihood of getting away with some sleazy scheme to screw the escort out of payment. Google Voice, Voips, Bandwith #’s are not a friend to escorts. They are a nuisance.

Currently I’m in San Francisco and my profile is posted online. I’m AMAZED with the amount of texts I’ve been receiving from “prospective clients” who are attempting to get additional photos, information etc but who are using “VOIP’s” /fake Internet based phone numbers. Based on my experience, it’s not safe or wise to invite a total stranger into your hotel room or home, whos unable to provide their actual cell phone number. When contacted by someone using one of these phony numbers, I request they contact me directly using their actual cell number. Since I’m using my actual cell number, it’s only fair. [notable exception is someone who’s a celebrity/high profile. I make the exception there, because then they are NOT an “anonymous” stranger]. This is for common sense safety.

Doublelist !! Spread the word. This has the best chance so far to replace CL from what I’ve seen and heard so far.

Ive met BK via work and it was clearly expressed that his personal attraction was towards “daddys”. I think this is pretty well known by people who know him. Blue had no interest in twinks that I knew of; much less children. So this situation totally shocked me and doesn’t make sense. If anything, he’s been linked to these charges solely because his older bf was the actual pervert who inadvertently utilized Blues devices to access the illegal smut (I don’t know him or anything about him except that he’s older then Ben and was a professor at UCSF).

I’ve also been fascinated with the mysterious disappearance of this large high-tech modern airplane. Amazes me that my iphone can be easily tracked by GPS yet an airplane that costs $400 million dollars, can go missing. Thank you for the informative update Samhexum!!!

If any underage boys are found to be posting on RM, I believe it jeopardizes the existence of the entire website. As an added precaution Rentmen should enforce a new policy that requires ID to be shown if advertising on their site. That would show they are being proactive and could only help their postion.

Lol. On the east coast, Coke is cheaper then crystal. On the west coast it’s vice versa.

In the past year or two, I’ve noticed that some guys (millenials especially) will state they are into pnp but are not into meth at all but only “420 and molly”, or maybe “only ghb and coke” as example. “PNP” no longer strictly equates = “partying on meth” like it once did. These days many people apply it to meaning that they simply enjoy having sex while high (on something). Pot has grown immensely popular by the general public and most potheads are not even remotely interested into stimulants.

Just had the pleasure to work along side SFP for a couple of hrs this afternoon here in SF. Very “all american”, “clean cut” look; arrived in freshly pressed business casual attire, he’s got a good head on his shoulders, and clearly still fresh to the business. He was very accommodating to the whims of the client who enjoyed being in control. Looking fwd to hopefully working again with SFP soon!

In my experience of traveling /working, I have heard that Chicago and Vegas are two cities that have previously engaged in sting type operations to bust escorts. (This has not stopped me from working in these cities although I’ve tried to be more careful when there). What other cities have male escorts been arrested?

The majority of escorts I’ve met, in the largest markets, do pnp. Regardless of what’s posted on their profile.

What does this mean NYCman? Lol. I’m surprised no one else has commented on what you stated. So if an escort “misrepresents himself”, rather than showing the jerk to the door, you go forward with the session anyways, and THEN you just pay substantially less (if at all) upon the conclusion of the session? And you have never had this turn out poorly? That’s hard to believe.

:eek:Couples are usually a nightmare in one respect or another and I try to avoid at all cost (especially couples in Dallas). However, if I get a request to join another escort who’s currently having FuN with a client, those types of calls are almost always good times.

In my experience, it’s been almost a cliche to think that most clients who hire escorts “must only be older guys”. That has never been my experience, overall. That’s because my clientele has always skewed on the younger side; on average 25-39. However, in the last few months I’ve also been hired by an 18 yo, 19yo & was flown over to Europe in November to meet up with a 21 yo American college student who’d hired me during a trip to Dallas the previous summer. An even bigger misconception is that clients who hire “have to hire in order to get laid”. In my experience, Ive been hired by some extremely attractive men, including other escorts, runway models, pro athletes etc. In additon, in this day & age, with the popularity and ease of use of the hookup apps i.e. Grindr, Scruff, etc = almost NO ONE “needs” to hire an escort. Thats just the truth. Hiring is most importantly about convenience and also getting something specific and when u want it. I don’t feel it’s about “desperation” as it maybe once was or is portrayed in movies.

Count me in

If I’ve noticed a prospective client has looked at my profile numerous times in a short period of time (approx more then 5-7 times), I’ll send a casual introduction / “hello” and sometimes it has resulted in getting booked for an appt.