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My parents owned a hair salon, so growing up I was told you don't tip the owner of a business, but you tip the service team because they are maybe renting the chair, etc. I apply that to massage. When I go to a spa, I understand that you are paying the spa for the 60 or 90 minutes, the masseur is getting paid an hourly rate, therefore you tip the masseur at the spa. But if someone is working for themselves they can just set their own rates accordingly. This is why it seemed a bit brazen for him to turn around and ask me for a tip on top of a nearly $500 massage.

Maxxnum asian straight men RentMasseur Had a session with Maxxnum the other night at my apartment. The massage was very good and very sensual without prompting as far as what he initiated towards me during the massage of the lower back and butt area. But he needed some prompting to take his underwear off. He claims to be straight but he was aroused and kind of had a bi/gay vibe but I suppose I shouldn't generalize. The massage, in my opinion was expensive, 75 minutes at $450, that felt very high to me based on average NYC licensed massage rates, I was like "dude, this is a quarter of my rent." I would stick with the 60 minute which based on my 75 minute massage, would suffice. The only real negative is that upon payment he asked for a tip. I went ahead and gave him $40 extra because I didn't want to create a confrontational situation after such a nice massage, but did explain to him that it's not customary to tip for in-home massage, whether it is at the client's apartment or the masseur's apartment. Anyway, am I right that tipping outside of a spa environment should be unnecessary, just set your rate for what you want and keep it simple. Also, when in home massage is taking place it's not like the masseur has to share a cut of the massage fee with a business.

I've removed it. I had multiple tabs open and put it in the wrong thread. Also, everyone needs to chill, we're hardly solving world problems here. Jeez. Maxxnum asian straight men RentMasseur Had a session with Maxxnum the other night at my apartment. The massage was very good and very sensual without prompting as far as what he initiated towards me during the massage of the lower back and butt area. But he needed some prompting to take his underwear off. He claims to be straight but he was aroused and kind of had a bi/gay vibe but I suppose I shouldn't generalize. The massage, in my opinion was expensive, I would stick with the 60 minute which based on my 75 minute massage, would suffice. The only real negative is that upon payment he asked for a tip. I went ahead and gave him $40 extra but did explain to him that it's not customary to tip for in home massage, whether it is at the client's apartment or the masseur's apartment. With the cost of 75 minutes at $450, that felt very high to me based on average NYC licensed massage rates, so to ask for a tip on top of it, I was like "dude, this is a quarter of my rent." Anyway, am I right that tipping outside of a spa environment should be unnecessary, just set your rate for what you want and keep it simple. Also, when in home massage is taking place it's not like the masseur has to share a cut of the massage fee with a business.

Curious what goes on at Eagle NYC Beer Blast later into the evening, I usually go early and leave by 10 because I have work on Monday mornings but I'm wondering, as the night goes on and especially after midnight, does the 2nd floor on Sunday nights turn into a sex party?

This is interesting. He is clearly the person who was a victim of a hate crime and he's featured in an NYT Op Ed video from 2013. Not here to judge a persons journey, he clearly went through something very traumatic and trauma can certainly change a person's journey though I would venture a guess the pitch to gay men that he is straight is a selling point. I've been curious to book him as well but I need a table massage and this added information makes me hesitant for some reason. It's just odd to come from where he is coming from and sort of gay bait clients that you are straight which for the client adds an element of risk. I don't know, a person who is a victim of a hate crime very well could go through a process where they change their entire persona as a self protective response. I guess end of day if he is a talented masseur that is really what matters.