Thanks for posting @LostUpstate. Years ago I had the reverse situation where I responded to a hookup ad on Craigslist. After a few back and forth emails, the picture that showed up was of a masseur that I saw regularly. Decided not to send a return pic and ghosted him. Always felt a bit bad and wondered what might have been whenever I saw him after for a massage. I was afraid to mess with our relationship as most sessions included erotic extras. And I think I had some fear of finding out he wasn’t really into me.