I read "Swimming in the Dark" this weekend; I cannot remember when I have been so moved by an author's writing; Jedrowski's Ludwik writes a letter to his former lover Janusz; politics does go to the heart, and the political differences between the lovers spells doom for the relationship.
guys, I didn't know about the 2-hour requirement, but I am thinking that to have a proper tantric massage with all of the bells and whistles, that might be about right
I couldn't get enough of it since I was still in the process of coming out and was watching everything and reading everything gay; might be fun to watch it again
has anyone had any experience with this young man? here's his Mintboys ad:
https://www.mintboys.com/male-escorts/tucson/5e9ab74cce412f2aadfe7cf8
English is not his first language, but even allowing for that, my text exchanges with him give me pause
here's a thread that may help:
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/massage-by-stephen-palm-springs.151497/#post-1838770
there has been a change in his appearance; his face looks somewhat different; can't quite figure it out though
I think it's situational; I think older men can be incredibly sexy and appealing, so if you found an older provider that you enjoy being with, seize the opportunity
some of these black and white photos are just amazingly beautiful--the subject matter is great, of course, but the contrast, the lines of his legs; this one is really a feast for the eyes, @marylander1940!
I couldn't resist, @whipped guy; I thought what in the world are Japanese clover clamps; here's what I found:
https://bestnippleclamps.com/japaneses-clover-clamps/history-of-clover-clamps/
intriguing; thanks for the education!
JS
I had a delightful time with him very recently; the massage was exactly what I had in mind and I will repeat when I can.
cf: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/massage-recommendations-los-angeles.121995/#post-1275991
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/anthony-in-los-angeles.139141/
is he the guy whose massage strokes are more like "nibbles" with his hands? if so, I had this internal conversation with myself: "I am not comfortable; I want to get out of here; how do I tell him that?" I left after a few minutes of this; I just said "I am not comfortable and I'm leaving." I know I paid him something but it was less than the full amount agreed upon.