BFM73

Been there. Done that. Got the T-shirt. Mediocre massage, great extras, sweet guy, a little softer than the pictures would have you believe

Bumping this to see if anyone else has had recent experience. He pops up on most platforms including RM and Adam4Adam. To me it seems he would lean more towards escort than massage. He has more reviews now. If anyone has seen please let me know, just need a little more validation from this site before I take the plunge.

First, I have to say that I HATE YOU.
 
Second, I'm going to address your doubts and concerns with just one expression: WHY NOT?!
 
I mean, life is short! This summer is short! How many years of (sex) life do we have left? There is even the chance that we will have a Covid 2nd wave and we'll need to come back to lockdown, so LIVE IT UP NOW!
 
However, I don't want to leave without saying that you should also exercise some caution, and not only because of Covid. Now you might be known in the hood as the guy who hosts pool orgies. There are always downers who will try to ruin the party, file a complaint, or whatever. Now you have the orgy experience under your belt but you certainly seem to have felt overwhelmed. Rest assured that you will still see the Brazilian guy (enjoy him while you can cause those tend to eventually disappear as well) so perhaps for now you can tone it down to 3somes and 4somes but be more cautious about the orgies. Next time when you feel the urge to have another one you can organize it yourself with your newly built reputation by changing your Grindr bio to something suggestive (i.e. "I have a BIG BIG ... pool") and only inviting guys who you've already met with in those more controlled 3somes and 4somes, instead of random guys invited by a guy that you've only known for a short period of time.

Well he can now be fully open with what he’s been unofficially doing all along. I still recommend anyone seeing him get a massage first and then go for the extras. His massage skills are A+. His name change is interesting though, Brandon if you want a massage, Leonardo for full service? I had to reactivate my RM account back to premium to see his private pics and videos! I guess we will have to discuss him in the Deli from now on.

Anyone remember Baywatch back in the 90s? All those hot, bare chested men....
 
David Charvet

 
Jason Momoa

Don't know why he put up the private pics.....they are no more revealing than the other ones.

I’ll second and third everything said about this jerk, worst massage experience I’ve ever had. I blocked him on RM so I would see him come up on my searches. Again, don’t know how he stays in business. It’s too bad because his location is super convenient right off the 405 and Wilshire. He’s actually very cute and my type which is why I kept pressing to meet him after all the rude texting, asking me if I was height/weight proportioned and then telling me I’d have to pay extra because I wasn’t. I know, no one to blame but myself on that. Not only was the massage bad but it lasted only 45mins, honestly I couldn’t get out of there fast enough though. Never again.

I’ll second and third everything said about this jerk, worst massage experience I’ve ever had. I blocked him on RM so I would see him come up on my searches. Again, don’t know how he stays in business. It’s too bad because his location is super convenient right off the 405 and Wilshire. He’s actually very cute and my type which is why I kept pressing to meet him after all the rude texting, asking me if I was height/weight proportioned and then telling me I’d have to pay extra because I wasn’t. I know, no one to blame but myself on that. Not only was the massage bad but it lasted only 45mins, honestly I couldn’t get out of there fast enough though. Never again.

Orville reporting back: Different from Rentmen; Mintboys, at least in my area, it's a mixed bag of pros, hustlers and curious with definitely a bigger portion of them calling themselves "straight", close to 50 or 60%, while in Rentmen, I believe, the straight are a minority. For my casual research experiment, and out of personal preference, I targeted only those who declare being straight asking upfront for their rates and telling them I'm a single man. Only half of them replied which for me it's a bad sign but it's unclear to me if they didn't reply because they wouldn't see single men or they are just not following up with their ads. From those who responded; the pros, who are also on Rentment, replied straight forward with their usual rate between $250 and $300 for any activity comprised within 1hr of their time. The hustlers replied with a lot of statements and questions of the sort "I'm straight but I don't mind men", "I prefer women but you can blow me", "What do you want, for how long, and when?", they were also ignorant about the common jargon between escorts and clients (I recall one replying to the cut/uncut question saying that he has short hair). Finally, the Curious are gay and bi men pretending to be straight and just trying to knock their rocks off while making some money on the side. Hustlers and Curious gave me way lower rates than the pros, in the order of $70 to $150, and very open to negotiation, to the point that I just bargained a bj for $40 but I'm honestly scared of what could come along with a bj on a desperate amateur cock from out of town for that price. ?

Yeah. He is a real piece of work. I made the mistake of hiring him. Won't make that mistake again. He is cute, but the massage and the attitude suck (and not in the good way)

exactly I got the same vibe from him. Seems like kinda of an ass. His first reply to me after contacting him the EXACT way he instructed us in his ad was “Are your back and butt totally hairless? And your age weight and height please”......is this guy for real lol

He is way too high maintenance. He is like the soup nazi of massages. He may be good but I’m not gonna bow down to that diva. Jeez

Ahh the good old days of Craigslist and Backpage! You could always find a cheap fix there lol

It’s nice to have different resources and the experience (and sixth sense!) to navigate and use them.

Mintboys definitely filled the void left by the demise of Craigslist and Backpages. More scammers and hustlers, but also more desperate straight guys who need money. In general the going rates are way cheaper than RM. While surfing it I avoid calling or texting and contact those who published an email. That really narrows down the options. Out of dozens of enquiries over the past year I’ve only ever met one guy off there. The experience was OK but again about what I expect from this website.

Mintboys definitely filled the void left by the demise of Craigslist and Backpages. More scammers and hustlers, but also more desperate straight guys who need money. In general the going rates are way cheaper than RM. While surfing it I avoid calling or texting and contact those who published an email. That really narrows down the options. Out of dozens of enquiries over the past year I’ve only ever met one guy off there. The experience was OK but again about what I expect from this website.

Mintboys definitely filled the void left by the demise of Craigslist and Backpages. More scammers and hustlers, but also more desperate straight guys who need money. In general the going rates are way cheaper than RM. While surfing it I avoid calling or texting and contact those who published an email. That really narrows down the options. Out of dozens of enquiries over the past year I’ve only ever met one guy off there. The experience was OK but again about what I expect from this website.

Unlike RM, one sees more straight providers looking for women. Also, at least in Seattle, more college guys posting ads. I wonder if the pandemic and the collateral economic damage is prompting more guys to place ads?

though filmbuff's post indicates we can PM him for details regarding his meet, I presume you can PM him about his social-distancing policy, too

Me too.

No, besides, I didn't want him to cum too fast.

Uh, no he didn't, but I did like sliding my hard cock between that crack.....

I was surprised too considering how excited he got. He always came with me and that was something I never really saw with other providers. He genuinely seemed to enjoy what he was doing.

Yeah, he was tons of fun. Also seemed to really get into it himself, which made it more fun. Hope he resurfaces!

Yes, jeffla, that is the guy. Wish I knew what happened to him......like you, I would happily repeat (post-COVID)!