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Yea I've been thinking about starting in a more structured way but am also slightly worried about the lack of privacy in some ways and the potential impact it can on other aspects of your life. I believe you can pick and choose clients (if you have the option),as they can pick and choose providers. Beggars (just hope to have plenty of inquiry) shouldn't be choosers but I think it would be best to leave a session both feeling good about yourself, and your overall work, which should be based on the clients response after its over.  It seems some people take this more seriously? As this might be their livelihood, other people are just making a little money on the side, and then all the other reasons in-between. Personally, I couldn't sit around and think that by providing, I'm somehow helping better the current geopolitical state of the world or reversing the dementia progression in my clients, but that's just me. However, recently I've had experiences from different people where I was compensated for what I believe to be a quite decent amount for what I consider, "easy acts", i.e. mostly just laying back, letting them service me and sometimes being dominant as they requested. The opportunities were offered and I took them, would have I hooked up with these individuals without the prize, maybe one of them. How did I feel after? Fine! They seemed happy and I had something in my wallet. This was all done on apps versus more traditional provider websites. So yea... Good luck, you seem like a direct communicating doer-type, so just do it if it sits right with you, don't need to be all cerebral about it like myself. 😎

Yea I've been thinking about starting in a more structured way but am also slightly worried about the lack of privacy in some ways and the potential impact it can on other aspects of your life. I believe you can pick and choose clients (if you have the option),as they can pick and choose providers. Beggars (just hope to have plenty of inquiry) shouldn't be choosers but I think it would be best to leave a session both feeling good about yourself, and your overall work, which should be based on the clients response after its over.  It seems some people take this more seriously? As this might be their livelihood, other people are just making a little money on the side, and then all the other reasons in-between. Personally, I couldn't sit around and think that by providing, I'm somehow helping better the current geopolitical state of the world or reversing the dementia progression in my clients, but that's just me. However, recently I've had experiences from different people where I was compensated for what I believe to be a quite decent amount for what I consider, "easy acts", i.e. mostly just laying back, letting them service me and sometimes being dominant as they requested. The opportunities were offered and I took them, would have I hooked up with these individuals without the prize, maybe one of them. How did I feel after? Fine! They seemed happy and I had something in my wallet. This was all done on apps versus more traditional provider websites. So yea... Good luck, you seem like a direct communicating doer-type, so just do it if it sits right with you, don't need to be all cerebral about it like myself. 😎

Yea I've been thinking about starting in a more structured way but am also slightly worried about the lack of privacy in some ways and the potential impact it can on other aspects of your life. I believe you can pick and choose clients (if you have the option),as they can pick and choose providers. Beggars (just hope to have plenty of inquiry) shouldn't be choosers but I think it would be best to leave a session both feeling good about yourself, and your overall work, which should be based on the clients response after its over.  It seems some people take this more seriously? As this might be their livelihood, other people are just making a little money on the side, and then all the other reasons in-between. Personally, I couldn't sit around and think that by providing, I'm somehow helping better the current geopolitical state of the world or reversing the dementia progression in my clients, but that's just me. However, recently I've had experiences from different people where I was compensated for what I believe to be a quite decent amount for what I consider, "easy acts", i.e. mostly just laying back, letting them service me and sometimes being dominant as they requested. The opportunities were offered and I took them, would have I hooked up with these individuals without the prize, maybe one of them. How did I feel after? Fine! They seemed happy and I had something in my wallet. This was all done on apps versus more traditional provider websites. So yea... Good luck, you seem like a direct communicating doer-type, so just do it if it sits right with you, don't need to be all cerebral about it like myself. 😎

I’ll PM my gym’s address 😆 

This would be a side, temporary thing. A4A seems like  a good place to start. I don't mind sending my pictures, I do it for hooking up lol, however this would be different.
 
Thanks for answers.

There’s no accounting for taste. I disagree with a lot of people’s opinions on this site as I’m sure they would disagree with mine. 

I look for older men who live alone. I meet some at gyms that are popular with gay men. I'm young and attractive so finding older, horny men is easy. And it was even easier when I was in my 20s😆. They don't hide how thirsty they are. So when they start coming onto me, I mention that I'm selling my time.

Another thought is to befriend some guys who are already in the biz.  Sometimes a clients asks his escort to bring in a second (or a third or fourth...) and in that instance you may get included with no advertising at all.  The general contractor may be glad to bring in subcontractors who aren't publicly available, a win win.  I do it frequently.  Granted it wouldn't be all the time, but maybe a way to get your feet wet.
Kevin Slater

That line of work exists since humanity became civilized. That means, people have been providing without Internet for quite a long time. Just search info about the old fashion way of doing things, and the type of clients that cater to that level of discretion. I'm sure that there's clientele out there that prefer that level of secrecy too. I think that's quite a niche for some.

As someone who's provided as a side hustle, I just find lonely men and offer my services. I never advertise. I live in a city where it's easy to stay under the radar. Finding clients would be harder in other places.

On the one hand you’ll want clients which means making your services widely marketed but on the other hand you want confidentiality which requires the opposite of widely marketed! You can be a provider with no clients I guess…but you won’t make much money 🙂. 
You don’t need to be overtly public with your face in your advertising but body pics will be essential. And it’s inevitable that many clients will ask for a face pic at some point. There isn’t much of a market for a surprise provider. People don’t buy this product sight unseen. 
 
 

Put yourself in the shoes of a client. You should have answer of what to do. 

Would be quite hard. Maybe try reserve search your photos first? Its quite easy these days

It is really hard to do that - most guys have a “type” and they want to make sure you are that “type” before agreeing to meet.  How will you get the attention of guys when you dont have a profile that pops? 
 
I once met a provider on Adam4Adam with a very discreet profile. He only shared face pics once we established  that we were a good match. He had another career he wanted to protect. He was a regular buddy for a long time until he retired (but I still get a holiday card from him every year in his other professional persona). He could not make a living as a provider following that approach, but he had a lot of fun and earned a good bit of spending money that way. 
 
My question for you is this: do you want to be a professional provider or is this just a side gig? Pick your lane and then deal with the next steps.