dcman
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dcman reacted to + keroscenefire in meeting a non-reviewed guy
I would suggest meeting in person in public first. If he is staying at a hotel then the hotel bar is perfect. Or if you're planning on hosting, a nearby bar or coffeeshop works great. Communication is key. Say that you're a nervous first timer and appreciate his patience with meeting in person first.
If he is being too hesitant or a jerk about it, that is a big red flag. Of course do remember that you are giving him a donation for his time only, so do expect that the public visit is part of the time that you're spending with him and expect to compensate him for it. In many cases, you can quite quickly suss out his character in person and most likely will be quickly ready to take it to the next level. If you do feel weird about how he's acting or if he maybe looks quite a bit different than his pictures, you can maybe cut it short and just give him the compensation for his time and leave.
Definitely do not pay any fees up front or give him any information that would be too personally identifiable. Often I will leave my wallet and ID in the car and just have the cash for the session on me and my password locked phone. If hosting, I put away my wallet, bills and computer. Once you build trust, it's fine.
Do remember there is a fine line between caution and paranoia. Most likely he is just getting into this business and may be as nervous as you are. Relax and have a good time. 99 percent of the time you'll be comfortable with each other once you meet in person.
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dcman got a reaction from jtaq1295 in 411 on Ashton ?
Anyone know anything about this guy? Search pulls up almost nothing...
https://rent.men/EscapewithAshton
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dcman got a reaction from whatahoot8 in 411 on Bliss_Bodywork
I'm interested too but sure would be nice to hear about someone's experience with him....
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dcman got a reaction from KeepItReal in 411 BrMas Wilker Lopez visiting Philly aka LeoJacob
Dude, get to a doctor and have that checked out. You need to know what it is.
As for Shorty, he's not getting very good reviews and I am for sure passing. Had enough info from enough guys testing the water.
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dcman got a reaction from Wanderoz in Massage and Top DC/MD
Any of you guys know of a good provider for a great massage and then topping experience ?
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dcman got a reaction from whatahoot8 in Massage and Top DC/MD
Any of you guys know of a good provider for a great massage and then topping experience ?
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dcman got a reaction from marylander1940 in Any update on Zack Matteo ??
I wrote to him and asked for a current photo and he went into a rage.... That says it all.
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dcman got a reaction from marylander1940 in BEWARE -- Likely SCAM-- Exotic Flavor
Guy gets real bent out of shape when asked to send a selfie...says he just put up his main photo this morning, even though I have seen it there for the past several days....buyer beware !! Have received several PM that the photos are old..... This cat fishing and fakes is getting really a pain in the butt.
https://rent.men/ExoticFlavor
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dcman got a reaction from crushme99 in hotel room hosting
Uh...6 boys in the past few days?????? Do tell more......any guys we might know??? Fee free to PM if necessary. What sort of energy food do you eat?
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dcman got a reaction from marylander1940 in hotel room hosting
Uh...6 boys in the past few days?????? Do tell more......any guys we might know??? Fee free to PM if necessary. What sort of energy food do you eat?
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dcman got a reaction from + Just966 in hotel room hosting
Uh...6 boys in the past few days?????? Do tell more......any guys we might know??? Fee free to PM if necessary. What sort of energy food do you eat?
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dcman got a reaction from + Axiom2001 in Dario Owen
Look forward to hearing how it goes.....I am somewhat intimidated by him....
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dcman got a reaction from hgpal in 411 on RealTantric in NYC
FORGET IT ..... total waste of money and time.
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dcman got a reaction from alexslaveboy in Providers West of Philly?
I did not see him but did see his former (?) partner in March...... ( now I can't remember his name). Really nice guy but also has very dated photos. I think they should both put up 2019 photos so guys are not surprised when they open the door.
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dcman got a reaction from sexymonk in Providers West of Philly?
I did not see him but did see his former (?) partner in March...... ( now I can't remember his name). Really nice guy but also has very dated photos. I think they should both put up 2019 photos so guys are not surprised when they open the door.
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dcman got a reaction from Wanderoz in 411 Federicco ? DC
Anyone with experience ? Past or Present?
https://rentmasseur.com/Federicco/
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dcman got a reaction from Wanderoz in Miguel in DC
Big man at 6'7 and 240 pounds, would love to know more, love big strong guys !!
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dcman got a reaction from Wanderoz in 411 on GUSTAVO_BR in DC
Anyone have any current or previous experience with him?
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dcman got a reaction from Nvr2Thick in 411 of "TenDeep" in Washington, DC
I have tried and would not repeat. If you want more please pm.
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dcman got a reaction from Bearman in Providers West of Philly?
You guys know of any providers around Paoli , Malvern or King of Prussia?
Thanks.
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dcman got a reaction from Youngmilkman in Wanted, Big Meaty Chest
For 2019 I really want to find more guys with a Big, Meaty Chest, that usually comes with all the extras like biceps, abs etc but the chest really spins my wheels..... Any suggestions in the DC or Baltimore markets ?