RayK
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RayK got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Tacony, traveling
Some of the young'uns just don't have a sense of ethics. Or just don't have any sense, at all !
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RayK reacted to thruster in Do you ever contact RM reviewers for more info on reviews?
I do. But only after I have first searched Company of Men for details on a provider. If I don't find enough detail, I send two or three recent RM reviewers RM messages asking about the guy they have reviewed and whom I'm thinking of hiring.
I keep my requests simple, saying something like "I see you enjoyed your time with ____ last month and I'm thinking of meeting him. I'd be grateful for any details you're willing to share."
I never ask reviewers about rates. I only ask providers directly about rates.
And I find that typically 1 out of 3 RM reviewers respond to me, and I think that's a great response rate. Their responses vary in detail, and some are much more helpful to making my hiring decision than others, but nevertheless I always thank responders for taking the time to help me.
About 1 out of 8 RM reviewers open a more expansive discussion with me.
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RayK got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Any experience with Desertfunboy?
I spent an hour with him in Vegas, several weeks ago. He loves up to his name. Very sensual and reciprocal.
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RayK reacted to Whoisyourdaddy in Christopher_op in Las Vegas
I had trouble communicating with him. His pricing kept changing, and it seemed like he didn't want to do anything sexual, while charging upwards to $500/$600. He also occasionally uses an AI-generated bodybuilding picture.
It's a shame because I like his non-AI pictures.
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RayK got a reaction from BSR in Davicito in Vegas
I spent some time with him when I was in Vegas earlier this month. He looks exactly like his pics.
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RayK got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Having to decipher “size” in ads…
Frankly, I'm a bit more attracted to the guys whom claim 7 and under. I can only open my throat so far...
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RayK got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Having to decipher “size” in ads…
Frankly, I'm a bit more attracted to the guys whom claim 7 and under. I can only open my throat so far...
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RayK reacted to PaulM in Any info on Jimisagem in Seattle?
I’ll second the recommendation for Jim. Excellent strong massage from a hot guy. Upgrade needed for anything more than MN, MT and HE. Super nice guy too.
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RayK got a reaction from SDcompanyman in Palm Springs recommendations for Escorts and Erotic Masssage
Pony_ps ( masseur ) is a lot of fun. If Tom Sawyer ( escort ) is in town, he's great company.
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RayK got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Palm Springs recommendations for Escorts and Erotic Masssage
Pony_ps ( masseur ) is a lot of fun. If Tom Sawyer ( escort ) is in town, he's great company.
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RayK reacted to Blnj856 in First time advice
I would do a thorough search and narrow down your choices to a handful or so. Add those potential providers to your buddy list. For me, this is important because I can see which providers post “available now” and how often. I see it as the ones that don’t post as often, tend to have a comfortable client base built up, and seem to be more reliable and open to conversation (don’t go overboard) when it’s time to make an appointment. Remember, there are probably a lot of people that reach out with no real intention of meeting, which is why some providers don’t want to get into the back and forth. But nothing wrong with asking questions to see if they will be a good fit or not.
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RayK reacted to + SidewaysDM in First time advice
As someone who just recently had their first experience with a man, I will tell you what helped me tremendously. Once I narrowed down my search, with a handful of local providers, who were my type and had a fair amount of good reviews on RM. I checked them with Company of Men, to get some trusted reviews. After they passed that test, I paid for an hour of their regular rate to meet them in person. I only did this with 2 local providers. We had coffee or quick meal, and I was able to ask every imaginable question, and share my concerns about my first experience with a man. It also allowed me to see if we had a connection and real chemistry. I was able to find an awesome provider who has been kind, patient and loving, as I explore my sexuality with a man.This is not a conventional way go, and some of you will disagree with my method, but it sure worked well for me. I wish you the best with your journey.
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RayK got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Looking for twinks in Las Vegas
If you were, you'd have daddies lining up to meet you
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RayK reacted to calidaddi in 411 on Finnforyou in DC
Glad this thread exists. I'm in LA and wasn't sure about meeting up with him, seems to move around a lot and I like something regular.
Decided to do dinner and some fun. Let's just say the boy can take it. Awesome smile, funny, and we were in the bedroom for hours.
Ended up having him over the next night and skipping dinner entirely. Definitely recommend.
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RayK got a reaction from calidaddi in 411 on Finnforyou in DC
I met Finn this evening in Las Vegas, and hope that repeats many times in the future, much like it happens with minhmang ( see posting above ). Finn is genuine, intelligent, sexy as hell, and, also, one of the nicest guys I've ever met. I wish he lived in my hometown. Or next door. Or in my spare bedroom. Seriously, Finn's a sweet guy, and he made me forget that I'm an old coot. The pleasure of his company is a memorable treat
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RayK got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in 411 on Finnforyou in DC
I met Finn this evening in Las Vegas, and hope that repeats many times in the future, much like it happens with minhmang ( see posting above ). Finn is genuine, intelligent, sexy as hell, and, also, one of the nicest guys I've ever met. I wish he lived in my hometown. Or next door. Or in my spare bedroom. Seriously, Finn's a sweet guy, and he made me forget that I'm an old coot. The pleasure of his company is a memorable treat
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RayK reacted to minhmang in 411 on Finnforyou in DC
Finnforyou is currently in Los Angeles. He has been my regular boy toy for many years when he was in northern Virginia suburb of DC. He recently moved.
It was a happy surprise that Finnforyou happens to be in LA when I am there for a work trip. We have met MANY times over the years. Can't tell you how great Finnforyou is. Do yourself a favor to meet him. You need at least 2 hours to appreciate him!!!"
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RayK got a reaction from jeezifonly in Is it unreasonable to expect to see a masseurs nudes?
If he’s only advertising as a masseur, even though conversation could suggest that he’s open to other action, he might simply be avoiding potential legal action from local authorities. Full frontal photos aren’t necessarily illegal, but can suggest paid sexual services, and those most certainly can be. A phone call asking for details of “dimensions” might be the solution.
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RayK got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in Is it unreasonable to expect to see a masseurs nudes?
If he’s only advertising as a masseur, even though conversation could suggest that he’s open to other action, he might simply be avoiding potential legal action from local authorities. Full frontal photos aren’t necessarily illegal, but can suggest paid sexual services, and those most certainly can be. A phone call asking for details of “dimensions” might be the solution.
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RayK got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Is it unreasonable to expect to see a masseurs nudes?
If he’s only advertising as a masseur, even though conversation could suggest that he’s open to other action, he might simply be avoiding potential legal action from local authorities. Full frontal photos aren’t necessarily illegal, but can suggest paid sexual services, and those most certainly can be. A phone call asking for details of “dimensions” might be the solution.
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RayK got a reaction from JungleForest in Is it unreasonable to expect to see a masseurs nudes?
If he’s only advertising as a masseur, even though conversation could suggest that he’s open to other action, he might simply be avoiding potential legal action from local authorities. Full frontal photos aren’t necessarily illegal, but can suggest paid sexual services, and those most certainly can be. A phone call asking for details of “dimensions” might be the solution.