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Notabottom got a reaction from Harryinny in 411 on ColombianPleasur
Anyone have recent experience with this provider
https://rentmasseur.com/ColombianPleasur
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Notabottom got a reaction from + bkwiseass in 411 Edydacosta
Anyone met with this guy?
https://rent.men/Edydacosta
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Notabottom got a reaction from Harryinny in 411 Edydacosta
Anyone met with this guy?
https://rent.men/Edydacosta
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Notabottom got a reaction from BeHappy in 411 Edydacosta
Anyone met with this guy?
https://rent.men/Edydacosta
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Notabottom got a reaction from Anthony in Any info on Fetishforolder?
Despite initial good experience, have to agree with this. Guy with serious issues, paranoid about showing his face and schizoid about meeting. Can be nice or vicious, depending on the day. Saw him a couple of times, got ghosted, then some mean messages. Would not repeat. AVOID!
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Notabottom got a reaction from + glutes in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from Kcdave in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from + bkwiseass in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from marylander1940 in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from Moke in 411 on Froy in DC
I saw him and had a mixed experience. The photos are of him, but somehow he.came across differently IRL. First, he’s larger in person than he looks in the photos. Taller, more muscular. Not the twink in the pictures, but a full-on muscle guy. Yeah, the pictures are accurate but the proportions don’t show. He’s warm and creates a clean room.
The massage itself was, well, strange. He straddles your head and works top down toward the ass. Gives a sensual feel, especially when he’s nude, but doesn’t really do much in therapeutic terms (he advertises a combo of therapeutic and erotic). Obviously trained but doesn’t use the training in a useful way.
The erotic part was more tease than anything else. Lots of full body contact. He has the moves but also has a boyfriend he’s devoted to. No kissing, even though he brushes your lips, or anything really sexual. He does 4-hand massage with said boyfriend and maybe it’s different when they’re working together. They really push the 4-handed, but I didn’t do that. No happy ending because of the way his attitude deflated the atmosphere. Because he’s charging premium prices that are at the escort rate in my area, this doesn’t feel right.
What really bothered me, though, was that he shorted the session. I paid for 90 minutes and got 70. Again, this is ridiculous at premium prices. From closely reading his reviews, others have had the same issue. Apparently, other people this happened to weren’t bothered by it, so consider what matters to you. I pointed out the time wasn’t over and he gave me a half-hearted neck rub for a few more minutes, but I didn’t leave feeling happy or relaxed.
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Notabottom got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Any info on Fetishforolder?
mostly... his pecs aren't as defined as they look in the cover picture, but I'm guessing that isn't what you meant... I would say his ruler is a bit off but not enough to matter (I think RM listings use a different measuring standard than carpenters use)
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Notabottom got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Any info on Fetishforolder?
Interesting that he told me a completely different story about where he was from. Wouldn't describe his body as hot. His RM ad says "defined." He isn't. He's slim but no pecs, and seemed insecure about his looks. Pictures he posts don't show much, but I wouldn't have matched them up with his person. He seems to have a route he travels around the country and only stays in one city for a few days at a time. For my city, he charged the market rate which was fine.
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Notabottom got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Any info on Fetishforolder?
Have seen him. Ad copy means what it says. Cute, polite, kissable. Paranoid about cameras, windows, and being seen. Works only in dim light and doesn't want to be looked at too closely. Businesslike in his approach. On time, doesn't bring electronics in, totally focused, quiet (no verbal), says the right things to make you feel appreciated, performs well (strictly top), finishes within an hour and cleans up to go. Seemed to know EXACTLY when 60 minutes is up without looking. Once paid for a longer session, but he was still finished (not me) within an hour and didn't seem to want to stick around.
A perfectly satisfying experience. But I'd say hiring him for more than an hour is a waste of money.
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Notabottom got a reaction from + Worthington45 in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from Saabster in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from gopochi in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from caramelsub in 411 on Freddie Flame
Skip him. Hired him. Disappointing, at best.
First, his pictures don't convey the real person. None of his pictures really show his face and he appears aloof and distant, a perfect god. IRL he is like the typical college jock. Big, beautiful blue eyes and an engaging smile that you never see in the pix. The kind of guy you'd be proud to bring home to mother. Pictures show flawless skin, but IRL lots of moles and pimples on the back, which is kind of a turn-off for me. Flawless skin is my fetish. Obviously works out daily, but also obviously never misses a meal and a little fuller than the pictures convey. Down to earth and friendly in a really hetero guy-next-door way. Good conversationalist, a grad student in business.
So, turns out to be a nice friendly hetero boy-next-door who seems resistant to having sex with another man. A real problem when that's what you're paying for. Claims "bisexual" but actually means "gay for pay." Also, doesn't really engage in role play, if he even understands the concept (although he lists it as a service in his ad).
His limits seem unlimited. Before he quoted a price, he asked what I wanted to do. He told me he was okay with those things and that he topped. I emphasized I was expecting the "versatile" in the "versatile top" he advertises and I expected activities to be mutual. He said he was down for what I wanted and we agreed on a price. Turns out, he's not really versatile and declined in person to do what he agreed to beforehand. (Of course, after he was paid.)
RED FLAG, he demands payment up front. He told me he had been stiffed five times by guys who he didn't collect from up front. After my experience, I'm not surprised they didn't want to pay him... he didn't really earn what he charges. Basically, you get a mediocre hand job and some half-hearted sucking (not really sucking, but putting a dick in his mouth for a brief time). I was so uninspired by him I gave up trying to get hard and pointed out the time as soon as the hour was up. He told me I was getting a bargain rate because usually he only does overnights, goes out to dinner and a movie with his clients before going to bed. IDK, Maybe he does more with those guys.
Plus side, if you care, he isn't a clock watcher and wouldn't have left if I hadn't told him the hour was up. He's proud of giving plenty of time...
On the scheduling... he cancelled the first 3 appointments we set up. Each time with a legitimate good reason, and I rescheduled because I wanted to meet the guy in the pictures. 4th time, he showed up at my house no extra charge. Seems reasonably reliable, no drugs or diseases. The rest, decide for yourself if you like what I've described or you want to waste some money. As always, YMMV.
Fun note: In a confirming text the day before, I asked him to "call me sir." He interpreted "call" to mean "telephone" and he did the next day. Wasn't expecting a call from a rent man, so was surprised when he said I had told him to call. No, I hadn't. A little while later, I realized the confusion and had a laugh.
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Notabottom got a reaction from Otterlybelievable in 411 on Froy in DC
I saw him and had a mixed experience. The photos are of him, but somehow he.came across differently IRL. First, he’s larger in person than he looks in the photos. Taller, more muscular. Not the twink in the pictures, but a full-on muscle guy. Yeah, the pictures are accurate but the proportions don’t show. He’s warm and creates a clean room.
The massage itself was, well, strange. He straddles your head and works top down toward the ass. Gives a sensual feel, especially when he’s nude, but doesn’t really do much in therapeutic terms (he advertises a combo of therapeutic and erotic). Obviously trained but doesn’t use the training in a useful way.
The erotic part was more tease than anything else. Lots of full body contact. He has the moves but also has a boyfriend he’s devoted to. No kissing, even though he brushes your lips, or anything really sexual. He does 4-hand massage with said boyfriend and maybe it’s different when they’re working together. They really push the 4-handed, but I didn’t do that. No happy ending because of the way his attitude deflated the atmosphere. Because he’s charging premium prices that are at the escort rate in my area, this doesn’t feel right.
What really bothered me, though, was that he shorted the session. I paid for 90 minutes and got 70. Again, this is ridiculous at premium prices. From closely reading his reviews, others have had the same issue. Apparently, other people this happened to weren’t bothered by it, so consider what matters to you. I pointed out the time wasn’t over and he gave me a half-hearted neck rub for a few more minutes, but I didn’t leave feeling happy or relaxed.
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Notabottom got a reaction from + Pensant in Any info on Fetishforolder?
mostly... his pecs aren't as defined as they look in the cover picture, but I'm guessing that isn't what you meant... I would say his ruler is a bit off but not enough to matter (I think RM listings use a different measuring standard than carpenters use)
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Notabottom got a reaction from + glutes in 411 request: Borilicious in SF
Moved recently from SF and is based in South Carolina now. Fantastic kisser and sweet. Has a really engaging smile he doesn't show in pictures. Compliant and very capable of topping or bottoming. Seen him twice, would see again. Market rates and does outcalls/local travel with no surcharge. Not a clock watcher and doesn't comment if you run over. Highly recommended.
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Notabottom got a reaction from mark1980 in 411 on Froy in DC
I saw him and had a mixed experience. The photos are of him, but somehow he.came across differently IRL. First, he’s larger in person than he looks in the photos. Taller, more muscular. Not the twink in the pictures, but a full-on muscle guy. Yeah, the pictures are accurate but the proportions don’t show. He’s warm and creates a clean room.
The massage itself was, well, strange. He straddles your head and works top down toward the ass. Gives a sensual feel, especially when he’s nude, but doesn’t really do much in therapeutic terms (he advertises a combo of therapeutic and erotic). Obviously trained but doesn’t use the training in a useful way.
The erotic part was more tease than anything else. Lots of full body contact. He has the moves but also has a boyfriend he’s devoted to. No kissing, even though he brushes your lips, or anything really sexual. He does 4-hand massage with said boyfriend and maybe it’s different when they’re working together. They really push the 4-handed, but I didn’t do that. No happy ending because of the way his attitude deflated the atmosphere. Because he’s charging premium prices that are at the escort rate in my area, this doesn’t feel right.
What really bothered me, though, was that he shorted the session. I paid for 90 minutes and got 70. Again, this is ridiculous at premium prices. From closely reading his reviews, others have had the same issue. Apparently, other people this happened to weren’t bothered by it, so consider what matters to you. I pointed out the time wasn’t over and he gave me a half-hearted neck rub for a few more minutes, but I didn’t leave feeling happy or relaxed.
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Notabottom got a reaction from itsgucci in 411 on Froy in DC
I saw him and had a mixed experience. The photos are of him, but somehow he.came across differently IRL. First, he’s larger in person than he looks in the photos. Taller, more muscular. Not the twink in the pictures, but a full-on muscle guy. Yeah, the pictures are accurate but the proportions don’t show. He’s warm and creates a clean room.
The massage itself was, well, strange. He straddles your head and works top down toward the ass. Gives a sensual feel, especially when he’s nude, but doesn’t really do much in therapeutic terms (he advertises a combo of therapeutic and erotic). Obviously trained but doesn’t use the training in a useful way.
The erotic part was more tease than anything else. Lots of full body contact. He has the moves but also has a boyfriend he’s devoted to. No kissing, even though he brushes your lips, or anything really sexual. He does 4-hand massage with said boyfriend and maybe it’s different when they’re working together. They really push the 4-handed, but I didn’t do that. No happy ending because of the way his attitude deflated the atmosphere. Because he’s charging premium prices that are at the escort rate in my area, this doesn’t feel right.
What really bothered me, though, was that he shorted the session. I paid for 90 minutes and got 70. Again, this is ridiculous at premium prices. From closely reading his reviews, others have had the same issue. Apparently, other people this happened to weren’t bothered by it, so consider what matters to you. I pointed out the time wasn’t over and he gave me a half-hearted neck rub for a few more minutes, but I didn’t leave feeling happy or relaxed.
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Notabottom got a reaction from Capitano in 411 on Froy in DC
I saw him and had a mixed experience. The photos are of him, but somehow he.came across differently IRL. First, he’s larger in person than he looks in the photos. Taller, more muscular. Not the twink in the pictures, but a full-on muscle guy. Yeah, the pictures are accurate but the proportions don’t show. He’s warm and creates a clean room.
The massage itself was, well, strange. He straddles your head and works top down toward the ass. Gives a sensual feel, especially when he’s nude, but doesn’t really do much in therapeutic terms (he advertises a combo of therapeutic and erotic). Obviously trained but doesn’t use the training in a useful way.
The erotic part was more tease than anything else. Lots of full body contact. He has the moves but also has a boyfriend he’s devoted to. No kissing, even though he brushes your lips, or anything really sexual. He does 4-hand massage with said boyfriend and maybe it’s different when they’re working together. They really push the 4-handed, but I didn’t do that. No happy ending because of the way his attitude deflated the atmosphere. Because he’s charging premium prices that are at the escort rate in my area, this doesn’t feel right.
What really bothered me, though, was that he shorted the session. I paid for 90 minutes and got 70. Again, this is ridiculous at premium prices. From closely reading his reviews, others have had the same issue. Apparently, other people this happened to weren’t bothered by it, so consider what matters to you. I pointed out the time wasn’t over and he gave me a half-hearted neck rub for a few more minutes, but I didn’t leave feeling happy or relaxed.
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Notabottom got a reaction from + lvmssg in 411 request: Borilicious in SF
Moved recently from SF and is based in South Carolina now. Fantastic kisser and sweet. Has a really engaging smile he doesn't show in pictures. Compliant and very capable of topping or bottoming. Seen him twice, would see again. Market rates and does outcalls/local travel with no surcharge. Not a clock watcher and doesn't comment if you run over. Highly recommended.