Keith838

If I'm not mistaken, I believe a while back I saw this guy @pubic_assistance claim that, when providers see him in person, they immediately slash their rates on the spot. I remember because it was such an absurd claim to make.
We have a liar and and a fabulist on our hands.
Anybody who believes a word @pubic_assistance says, I have an oceanfront property in Arizona I'll give you a real good deal on. Just PM me! 

OH, I see what happened. You reached out to him on Grindr, he refused to meet you for free, so you decided to try to destroy his business.
Pathetic. Disgusting. Sad. Reprehensible.

OH, I see what happened. You reached out to him on Grindr, he refused to meet you for free, so you decided to try to destroy his business.
Pathetic. Disgusting. Sad. Reprehensible.

@pubic_assistance You are his psychiatrist? Or you are privy to his medical diagnoses?
Your comments are pure malice. Uninformed malice, because you are not a client, and you evidently do not know him. Why? 
One of these days, hopefully soon, one of the libelous trolls on this site will be sued. And this site will be shut down. And justice will be done. 

@Cretus Ok so back in October, when I called out @DavidNY for dragging a different provider's name through the mud, I suppose I was that provider on that day? But today I am Kai? 🤔 
I regret posting, because I fear @pubic_assistance's lie that I am Kai is doing him more harm than if I had not posted at all. Trust me, if I were Kai, I would not be talking to you on this site, I would be talking to an attorney right now.
@pubic_assistance Isn't the only one on this site trying to destroy providers' reputations out of bitterness and pure malice. The problem is endemic to this site. There will be a libel lawsuit, probably sooner than later, and that will be a good day. 

@marylander1940 What evidence do you have that @pubic_assistance is "very honest and trustworthy"? Because he's been lying all day here.
To follow @pubic_assistance's logic: the fact that you are defending him, means that you are him, posting under a fake account. 

If I'm not mistaken, I believe a while back I saw this guy @pubic_assistance claim that, when providers see him in person, they immediately slash their rates on the spot. I remember because it was such an absurd claim to make.
We have a liar and and a fabulist on our hands.
Anybody who believes a word @pubic_assistance says, I have an oceanfront property in Arizona I'll give you a real good deal on. Just PM me! 

@pubic_assistance is a very honest and trustworthy frequent poster.
 (if that's true) it wouldn't be first time that has happened nor the last. 

If I'm not mistaken, I believe a while back I saw this guy @pubic_assistance claim that, when providers see him in person, they immediately slash their rates on the spot. I remember because it was such an absurd claim to make.
We have a liar and and a fabulist on our hands.
Anybody who believes a word @pubic_assistance says, I have an oceanfront property in Arizona I'll give you a real good deal on. Just PM me! 

"The site" IS great.
Because we all share our experiences and impressions. And that helps everyone make educated decisions about hiring.
It might not be great for providers who have had problems with clients.
Kai who is here pretending to be someone else, (possibly two different people), is understandably concerned about his reputation, and trying to protect it. That's fair.
But
It's not just ME, who's had weird experiences. It's multiple people...so this idea of "libel" is ridiculous from the root.
As they say: if enough people call you a horse. It's time to buy a saddle.

I am not Kai, I'm just another member expressing opinions. 
Let @pubic_assistance's willingness to lie about something like that so confidently reflect on his credibility and character. 
To the moderators: Are there no standards of behavior on this forum? Are there no rules? Is someone like @pubic_assistance allowed to just lie and spew vitriol against a provider with impunity?

The language of Keith in that last post is interesting lol but the point stands- Kai is probably a generally good provider. These comments about his personality might mislead a curious guy who is about to hire Kai to assume he’s not worth hiring. 

I do wish people considered more the fact that livelihoods are being impacted by pile-ons on this website….. your comments may be made on a whim but they have serious impact. I also wouldn’t speculate on his having Aspergers. That seems extreme.
I highly recommend Kai, as I’ve seen him many times at this point, (and I’ve seen a LOT of New York providers and been unsatisfied). Kai is kind, quirky, handsome, has a nice bubble butt, a nice dick, and great at what he does. I simply cannot say that for most other escorts I’ve seen… who I end up only seeing once.
 

Clearly "Kai" has joined the room ! 🤣
To be clear: I am not his Psychiatrist. I never met him in person.
I spoke to him after merely looking at his profile. He messaged ME. (Not the other way around). And the conversation was so aggressive, twisted and angry, my impression was that he may be mentally ill and dangerous so, therfore, I passed on the opportunity.
Over time others have commented on similar experiences and my impression has changed from violent bipolarism, to Asperger syndrome. That is an impression I carry based on multiple other life experiences with long time associates who were on the spectrum.
The response from Kai (Keith838) above demonstrates the anger behind his nature. Although an attractive man, I still would caution people about accidentally tapping into this suppressed anger that he harbors beneath the handsome package. Plenty of other providers with a hot ass and big dick who aren't potentially dangerous.
Beware.

Lol. Although that's a reasonable theory. It was the same scenario. I looked at your Grindr and you said hello to me. I didn't know it was YOU until you sent your privates.
I am sorry if you feel I am trying to "destroy your business". I am more contributing my impressions (and experience) to protect the gentlemen here from danger.
I am actually happy to know that you ARE able to conduct yourself with professionalism and manage to keep some regular customers.
However - the constant name changes and angry/irrational threats WOULD indicate that there IS another face to this coin.
I think you are aware that you have had problems with clients and coming here denying them with MORE angry rants is NOT helping you.
Most people are happy to give second chances as long as someone admits their mistakes and promises to do better. Lying about it and threatening revenge is NOT a good path forward.

I am sharing my experiences and drawing a conclusion. That's what adults do. That's what everyone does on this site.
I made it clear, that these are my impressions and opinions and that I hold no certificate in Psychology or Psychiatry.
So..no this is not "libel". You need to look up the definition.

You quote "libel" as if I ever said libel- you need to read what I wrote apparently.
These indeed are your impressions and opinions, and you hold no certificate in Psychology or Psychiatry.
You are free to spew these strong conclusions about who he is based off of your interactions with him. Others like myself, who have not merely chatted with him but have actually met up with him, are free to cast doubt on those conclusions based on our own experiences.
 

Now you are casting him as potentially dangerous, having a potentially violent disposition,  and having suppressed anger....... Aside from the subjectivity of these claims, they seem much different from merely being "neurodivergent" as many people repeatedly note on here...
 
These indeed are very serious claims, and they can seriously impact his business. Personally, I'm starting to get disgusted.

OH, I see what happened. You reached out to him on Grindr, he refused to meet you for free, so you decided to try to destroy his business.
Pathetic. Disgusting. Sad. Reprehensible.

@pubic_assistance You are his psychiatrist? Or you are privy to his medical diagnoses?
Your comments are pure malice. Uninformed malice, because you are not a client, and you evidently do not know him. Why? 
One of these days, hopefully soon, one of the libelous trolls on this site will be sued. And this site will be shut down. And justice will be done. 

There's someone for everyone.
Glad to know he's not repelling every customer.

I'm glad for him. It's always a struggle for people on the spectrum.
As far as ME hiring him, our interaction was so bizarre and twisted, I was worried that he was seriously mentally ill.
After listening to others here..it seems more likely that he's just got Aspergers.

@pubic_assistance He's obviously not repelling every customer. Or apparently any customer. He has 69 reviews, every single one of them five stars. 
Have you hired him? Are you a customer?
I sincerely feel sorry for all the trolls on here who spend their free time trying to damage providers' reputations and careers. 

Um….you guys; Raffaelbarros is the real deal. As HotNYCDan mentioned, he is top notch in every way. Sweet, adorable, beautiful, talented…I could continue, but suggest you find out for yourself. Enjoy….DM for details. 

@DavidNY It is WILD that you spent the entire day dragging an individual's name through the mud, with all his identifying information, and you now say that escorts sharing the username of a scumbag client is out of bounds. WILD!

Just like there are many bad providers they are also terrible clients. Many try to take advantage of escorts by trying to negotiate an almost insulting price or by simply not respecting their limitations/boundaries. My most recent experience was awful. It's the third one this year so far. I'm almost embarrassed to tell the story.
Why there isn't a sub forum on here for escorts to denounce charlatans,  scammers and time-wasters?