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I'd go back to my teen years when I was securely hidden in the closet and I'd be brave enough to come out and have my first gay teen romance -- something so many of us missed out on in high school -- with that boy I crushed so secretly over: Leif Garrett. (I'm pretty sure I could have him now for free but would pass; fame and time have been unkind to him.) But in 1977, my heart melted when I saw him on TV or the cover of my sister's Teen Beat. ... I'd give 16-year-old me that thrill.

Also, I’m in my 60s and he definitely seems to appreciate older guys. (And I’m not into findom so I can’t comment on that.).

I topped him but he more frequently is a top.

Sweet Midwestern boy living in San Diego. I saw him and enjoyed him. Charming. Not in a rush. Good oral skills. Nicely sized, too. As you can tell from the photos, he doesn't trim.

Thanks for the helpful responses. I appreciate them.

< So I had my first real sexual experience at the age of 41 with an escort. > Add 22 years to that number. I came out last year at 63 (was happily married, then widowed) and had my first gay sexual experience at that age (I'm not counting fumbling in backyard tents as a 12-year-old). I couldn't imagine starting my dating life as a 63-year-old gay virgin. So I hired an escort. He was brilliantly kind, gorgeous, generous and patient. I'm now hooking up regularly with a variety of guys through Grindr, Tinder, etc., and also have a couple FWB. I still see that first escort at least once a month and, occasionally, a new escort when traveling. Convenience, attractiveness, safety, lack of pressure and judgment -- those are among the other reasons. Also, having been with the same guy on nearly 40 "dates," we've developed a familiarity that is comforting to me. And we both know it's not going to become something more. It's worked out beautifully for me.

They were excellent. Very skilled. I enjoyed 69ing with him, as well.

Does anyone here -- clients or escorts -- ever worry about being stung by law enforcement? I'm guessing big cities with significant tourism and gay populations (NYC, LA, SF, etc.) are hands-off. But is it a worry for anyone or are those days past us?

An escort I met said he's having success finding older clients by playing pickle ball. lol

I think the escort will let you know if you're too stunning for them to accept your money. Otherwise, consider their cuming a bonus.

I fell hard for one escort. He was the first guy I had sex with after coming out in 2024, so there was a lot of emotion attached to our "situation" for me. He is a genuinely lovely man. We were able to work through the awkwardness that I created by being too invested, and we still see each other, our encounters richer and more mature as a result. I've seen about a dozen escorts in the 18 months I've been out. Four of them I've seen more than once. He is the only one I've spent dozens of days with. While I generally agree with someone's earlier statement about escorts being good actors and it being all about money, I also know first hand that sometimes you develop a mutually rewarding connection beyond the dollars. I consider him a friend, and I know he views me as more than a client. If I stopped paying, we certainly wouldn't continue having sex. But I've been to dinner (no fees) with him and his boyfriend. He's included me in aspects of his life, and he's reached out to me for business and education advice unrelated to any appointments. He's asked for help that isn't financial. There's a mentoring element to our relationship. His family is aware of me, and my sons are aware of him. ... Currently, I'm dating a young man who I met on an escort date. I booked him for two hours while visiting the West Coast. He asked if he could stay the night. We connected on a lot of levels, and he asked if we could date. He's visited my house for five-day stays twice now. I pay for the airfare but he refuses other payment; says it's not about the money. He's coming again in a few weeks. He says he's always been attracted to older guys. I think he has fallen for me. I'm not sure I'm in love with him but I do enjoy being with him. Bottom line: It's not always so cut and dried. When sex and human emotions are involved, the result can be complex. There can be many shades of gray between a strictly sex-for-money transaction and falling in love.

I fell hard for one escort. He was the first guy I had sex with after coming out in 2024, so there was a lot of emotion attached to our "situation" for me. He is a genuinely lovely man. We were able to work through the awkwardness that I created by being too invested, and we still see each other, our encounters richer and more mature as a result. I've seen about a dozen escorts in the 18 months I've been out. Four of them I've seen more than once. He is the only one I've spent dozens of days with. While I generally agree with someone's earlier statement about escorts being good actors and it being all about money, I also know first hand that sometimes you develop a mutually rewarding connection beyond the dollars. I consider him a friend, and I know he views me as more than a client. If I stopped paying, we certainly wouldn't continue having sex. But I've been to dinner (no fees) with him and his boyfriend. He's included me in aspects of his life, and he's reached out to me for business and education advice unrelated to any appointments. He's asked for help that isn't financial. There's a mentoring element to our relationship. His family is aware of me, and my sons are aware of him. ... Currently, I'm dating a young man who I met on an escort date. I booked him for two hours while visiting the West Coast. He asked if he could stay the night. We connected on a lot of levels, and he asked if we could date. He's visited my house for five-day stays twice now. I pay for the airfare but he refuses other payment; says it's not about the money. He's coming again in a few weeks. He says he's always been attracted to older guys. I think he has fallen for me. I'm not sure I'm in love with him but I do enjoy being with him. Bottom line: It's not always so cut and dried. When sex and human emotions are involved, the result can be complex. There can be many shades of gray between a strictly sex-for-money transaction and falling in love.

Definitely.

I saw JesTwink about a year ago in NYC and had a nice time with him. I found him sexy, compassionate and interesting. He's educated and articulate, well informed on current events and speaks multiple languages. (I tend to enjoy a little conversation with providers beforehand, probably more so than others.) Of course, none of this negates the other issues raised but I enjoyed my two hours with him.

I wondered, too. Looks suspicious.

Visiting San Diego. Looking for kind, fun providers with good vibes and attitude. Preferably twinks. Any first-hand experiences / recommendations?

Nice. Thanks.

Thank you.

Anyone have any experience with Jack? He has 27 or so reviews but I’m not finding him on COM.

Agreed. It's a minefield out there. ... I'm sure you and @Sboyyy are having a grand time. He's addictive, isn't he? lol

No. He was visiting. He's Chicago-based but traveling right now.

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I've done it both ways. I visit NYC frequently. I have my favorite regular I'm flying to NYC for a multi-day trip together in a few weeks. We travel together regularly, and I enjoy his company. But I also have hired several NYC-based escorts. Most were for hotel time but one was for a full evening: dinner out, the theatre, intimacy. He was an entertainment professional -- fun and insightful. The rates come into play for some of us. My regular charges a lower per-day travel rate than most guys' overnight rates so it's more affordable to fly him there than hire a local for overnights. There are so many options in NYC. You might enjoy the variety.