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Damn. Definitely my type, too.

Lots of good advice on this chain. But also cut yourself some slack. If you were really repulsive to them, even the Viagra wouldn't get them hard.

Tangential: I've had a couple guys who arrived for two-hour sessions and then asked if they could spend the night. (No, they weren't homeless.) I agreed because I enjoyed their company. Even though it resulted in more sex, I did let them sleep. Heck, I needed the sleep, too. ... Personally, I find travel rates preferable to overnight rates. Just my preference but I'd rather spread the sex over a few days and enjoy their company in other ways: meals out, shows, museums, whatever.

I believe border agents can require you turn over your phone. It's possible for escorting to be discovered through apps and messaging.

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Handsome. Has a decent vocabulary, too: curates experiences. Love it.

Handsome.

Of the men I've met through RM, I've not had concerns about fakes or photoshopping. But some of their pics are obviously dated. I don't think they're intentionally misleading; it's as if they have just left up old photos as they've added newer ones. Nothing drastic in my experience, mostly differences in hair styles.

I think we're all on the same page here: we like to hire escorts.

Thank you.

lol. I'd correct the typo if it'd let me.

Cop issue aside, that sounds like a pretty special relationship.

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Lol. Unintentional double meaning but ... I wish.

I'm going with Kerry Carpenter of the Detroit Tigers.

That first audience question was from me. I have been fortunate to meet both Jeffery and Cole, and love what they're about. Neither regrets their years as escorts.

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I'd go back to my teen years when I was securely hidden in the closet and I'd be brave enough to come out and have my first gay teen romance -- something so many of us missed out on in high school -- with that boy I crushed so secretly over: Leif Garrett. (I'm pretty sure I could have him now for free but would pass; fame and time have been unkind to him.) But in 1977, my heart melted when I saw him on TV or the cover of my sister's Teen Beat. ... I'd give 16-year-old me that thrill.

Also, I’m in my 60s and he definitely seems to appreciate older guys. (And I’m not into findom so I can’t comment on that.).

I topped him but he more frequently is a top.

Sweet Midwestern boy living in San Diego. I saw him and enjoyed him. Charming. Not in a rush. Good oral skills. Nicely sized, too. As you can tell from the photos, he doesn't trim.

Thanks for the helpful responses. I appreciate them.

< So I had my first real sexual experience at the age of 41 with an escort. > Add 22 years to that number. I came out last year at 63 (was happily married, then widowed) and had my first gay sexual experience at that age (I'm not counting fumbling in backyard tents as a 12-year-old). I couldn't imagine starting my dating life as a 63-year-old gay virgin. So I hired an escort. He was brilliantly kind, gorgeous, generous and patient. I'm now hooking up regularly with a variety of guys through Grindr, Tinder, etc., and also have a couple FWB. I still see that first escort at least once a month and, occasionally, a new escort when traveling. Convenience, attractiveness, safety, lack of pressure and judgment -- those are among the other reasons. Also, having been with the same guy on nearly 40 "dates," we've developed a familiarity that is comforting to me. And we both know it's not going to become something more. It's worked out beautifully for me.

They were excellent. Very skilled. I enjoyed 69ing with him, as well.

Does anyone here -- clients or escorts -- ever worry about being stung by law enforcement? I'm guessing big cities with significant tourism and gay populations (NYC, LA, SF, etc.) are hands-off. But is it a worry for anyone or are those days past us?