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Hired both of them and bad experiences. What can I say?

Hired both of them and bad experiences. What can I say?

Thanks for your comment. No, you should not give up hiring. What I described is my situation. Everyone has their own unique circumstances.

Guys, tread carefully. I can’t go into details, but I had a bad experience with him earlier this year. If you want more info, DM me

Unfortunately, I was hiring regulars and non-regulars alike and unrealistically trying to convert at least a couple of them into relationships. I went overboard and need, for now, to at least take a break.

I am trying to fill a void -- loneliness. I, too, have found it easier to hire a provider than dive into the dating pool. I know it's possible to develop non-financial relationships with providers. I am glad you've been able to do that. But the two guys I referenced in my posts were not interested in non-financial relationships. They were solely in it for the money, which should not be a surprise.

Thanks for your comment. No, you should not give up hiring. What I described is my situation. Everyone has their own unique circumstances.

Thanks for your kind words. I am having trouble dealing with this new reality, but I know I'll get past it. It'll take time and therapy.

Everyone has their own circumstances, so I can't say whether your situation qualifies as an "addiction" or not. I would caution you to be careful with your money, though. I have spent thousands of dollars on masseurs/escorts and have had many good experiences, but a few horrible ones.

Moving to another city with a gayborhood or gay village is a definitely worth pursuing if you have your heart set on it. I have considered that myself, but so far have not gone down that path.

Not sure. For now, I need to distance myself. As much as I wish I could continue booking appointments, it's just not mentally, emotionally or financially healthy for me right now.

Everyone has their own circumstances, so I can't say whether your situation qualifies as an "addiction" or not. I would caution you to be careful with your money, though. I have spent thousands of dollars on masseurs/escorts and have had many good experiences, but a few horrible ones.

Moving to another city with a gayborhood or gay village is a definitely worth pursuing if you have your heart set on it. I have considered that myself, but so far have not gone down that path.

I like the way you're approaching this. Congrats on having specific parameters and goals. I was hiring them when I didn't feel good about my body and even when I did. And I didn't set any sort of budget limitations -- big mistake on my part.

I like the way you're approaching this. Congrats on having specific parameters and goals. I was hiring them when I didn't feel good about my body and even when I did. And I didn't set any sort of budget limitations -- big mistake on my part.

Thanks for your comment. No, you should not give up hiring. What I described is my situation. Everyone has their own unique circumstances.

Thank you! Appreciate your kind words.

I am trying to fill a void -- loneliness. I, too, have found it easier to hire a provider than dive into the dating pool. I know it's possible to develop non-financial relationships with providers. I am glad you've been able to do that. But the two guys I referenced in my posts were not interested in non-financial relationships. They were solely in it for the money, which should not be a surprise.

Thank you so much for your kind words!

Thanks for your kind words. I am having trouble dealing with this new reality, but I know I'll get past it. It'll take time and therapy.

Not an expert, but in my case, when I've found myself doing too much of anything to the point that it becomes a concern, I seek professional help. People recommend things that work for themselves, from password-protecting things so you can't access them, to 12-step programs (seems like there is one of those for every bad habit that there is).
The thing is that what works for me might not work for you. I know things can get out of hand, and some people (like me) structure things to ensure that doesn't happen. I have a budget and specific instances for hiring, and set boundaries about where and when are the right circumstances to hire. I also made sure that my life doesn't revolve around things that can get out of hand.
Best wishes, and thanks for sharing this. You never know who relates to things that people post.

Guys. I’ve come to realize that I’ve become addicted to hiring these providers. I’ve cut myself off from RentMen and RentMasseur.
Any recommendations on how to get past this addiction?
Thx in advance.
Joseph

My session left me feeling a little underwhelmed, but I could see the potential and I wouldn't say trying again is off the table.
The massage showed promise. It was strong and deep, but I felt it moved on a little too soon to the extras, which were very good but I was hoping the balance would be a little heavier on massage.
He's a very friendly and complimentary guy. Very forthcoming about what he liked about me. I won't say no to a little ego stroking. Even went so far as to ask if I was interested in a second appointment a couple days later. (The mind said yes but the wallet said no.)
I think the main disappointing thing was my session was very short. To be completely fair, I was running late, and he seemed quite strict on time. I'm not docking points for my tardiness since it's definitely his right to keep to his schedule, but the time I spent being late plus the actual session still did not add up to the 60min I booked. I was probably out by the 45 minute mark. And considering the cost I do wish my block of time had been better filled out.