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you just saved me a bunch of pesos

forever in you debt for this link (it didn't turn up in my search before i started this conversation), and for all the comments on this one as well. you are all the greatest dudes on planet earth...

i think this is a great question

thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. did i forget to say thank you?

At the risk of starting a war that makes my laptop burst into flames (or worse, I get barred from this community), I'd love to hear the hive weigh in on whether or not straight providers understand gay desire. Before you torch me: 1) I understand sexuality is fluid (mine isn't), and desire comes in every form; 2) Social media has exaggerated the emphasis on male bodies, so there are more straight providers on gay sites than ever; 3) I know gay dudes can be just as narcissistic as straight guys, but the few straight dudes I've worked with seem to think they're doing me a favor and the fact they're straight is why I actually approached them (stop. I know there are tons of gay guys who are really turned on by straight guys. I'm not just not one of them); 4) Straight guys can be really turned on by gay dudes and super-appreciative; and 5) I know providers — of every sexual orientation — are not super-humans any more than their clients are, but I find it exhausting to have one more thing to navigate when I'm simply seeking some form of connection. Am I alone on this one? Here goes. Please don't hurt me...

thanks, man. i might give him a try now

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i feel bad my comments made you defensive, and apologies if our wires got crossed regrading my expectations. you're handsome, sweet, forthcoming and honest, and did your best to be accommodating. i have no doubt there are many clients who are very satisfied with what you have to offer. you're a very cool dude and i know you will develop a clientele that appreciates the services you're comfortable offering. some providers do require pictures or video chats prior to meeting. i would personally not do that because applying for intimacy seems to kick the legs out from under it, and it still doesn't guarantee chemistry. everyone finds their own way to feel comfortable, and you will as well. also, in my experience, many dudes are easily aroused in every context, while others prefer to be turned on by the client. and while i'm clear that the kind of interaction we're discussing here is actually professional, i feel compelled to add that spending time with a provider who is unable to respond can feel rejecting, the same way it does when you're seeking recreational intimacy. having said that, i honestly don't understand how providers offer what they do to their clients. i'm grateful there are people in the world who do.

i feel bad that my comments made you defensive, and apologies if our wires got crossed regrading my expectations. you're handsome, sweet, forthcoming and charming, and did your best to be accommodating. i have no doubt there will be clients who are very satisfied with what you have to offer, and you will find that clientele.

...oh, and i should probably ad, he set a phone timer alarm. that was a first for me.

i met him yesterday at $400, but we negotiated that rate before his rentmen ad. my impression is he has straight friends who do are also providers and they are filling his head with delusions of grandeur about what gay dudes want. he's a super-friendly and sweet, but he boasted about being huge and couldn't provide any evidence of that. he told me he liked oral servicing, but didn't get hard. he also said he was cool with kissing in our texts, but then told me he didn't kiss clients when we met irl. btw, he's muscular, but i believe the main profile pic is enhanced.

$400. he quoted $300 for erotic massage since he's outcall only. i suggested we meet at my studio but it wasn't set up for massage and asked if he offered other services (this was before his rentmen ad.) he said yes but asked what for a higher donation, and i offered $350, plus $50 more if he's a shooter. i dig shooters.

okay, and not exactly sure where this comment belongs. so... based on the profile images shared in this thread, i booked an appointment for a massage with this provider before he advertised on rentmen. he's a super-sweet, responsive and honest dude, and i want him to succeed at whatever he ends up doing, i really do, but imho, not everyone with a dick should offer it professionally and not everyone with strong hands should do massage. he's new to both, and is sweet af, but not quite ready for primetime. that sounds meaner on the page than it did in my head.

I'm seeing him today. Happy to report back if there's any interest.

God, I love this fucking thread

okay, i'm new here and still learning about/from this site, but wish i knew about this community, like, years ago. all subjectivity aside, you dudes have saved me soooooo much time and trouble with your feedback on providers. mad love for this community. forever in your debt. (god, that sounds insincere. but it really isn't.)

apologies if i crossed wires on this thread. i'm referring to AxelZar

https://rent.men/AxelZar at the risk of a)sounding like his agent, b)making it harder for him to find time for me, and c)repeating myself from another thread asking for 411 on him, axel is the nicest, sexiest dude i've spent time with in nyc. he's sweet, funny, playful, honest, responsive, adventurous and he thinks connection is the entire point of sex, which is exactly what i hope for in any and all forms of intimacy.

k. so i've met with axel a number of times. he is sexy af, really accommodating, playful, honest, and digs connectedness. he is handsome, funny, charming and responsive, like SUPER responsive. and his pecs and ass are unbelievable. i'm an older dude, and pretty sure he'd never respond to me during his recreational time on scruff so didn't reach out there. confirming that rate, and he's worth it, for sure. his hours are pretty specific though, which is just as well: i'd see him once a week if his schedule permitted it. he is hot af, and oddly intimate for someone so "talented." he is my favorite dude in nyc.

I've wanted to meet him for a while and finally our schedules worked. He hosted, worked on his bed. I found him flexible, honest, sweet, and very communicative. It was a great deep tissue massage, and i'm a massage snob. He is sexy, warm, kind, patient, responsive, and was totally cool with MT and release. He has a great body, and likes to be admired (he got aroused right away.) Beautiful ass (which he is proud of), and he was generous with his body. I think he's a keeper, if you dig bf-style intimacy, with open-minded, low-key dudes with strong hands, who are sexy without really knowing it. I definitely do. He sent a follow-up message. I love that.

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